You do not seem to be able to identify who you are talking to or who is listening.
Heb 4:15 For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.
Heb 4:16 Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.
Surely you would know who is speaking to you from the Throne if He spoke to you?.
LA
I Corinthians 12:7-11, if God chooses to give to me a word of knowledge and a word of wisdom and a discernment of spirits that is his option.
Since Christ is the head of the body, and Christ takes direction from God, his Father, the head does, of necessity communicate to the other parts of the body.
Jesus is not standing with me telling me what to write as I type on this keyboard.
He is seated on the right hand of the throne of God unless he needs to do something else like he did for Saul on the road to Damascus.
There is no need for the son of God to come down and have a conversation with me, I have scripture to learn and live
God does communicate with "proactive" believers by the manifestation of holy spirit. I Corinthians 12:7-11.
How much is Jesus Christ involved in the process? I do not know.
God told Jesus what to do, and if I should need specific instruction for a specific situation, God will likewise determine that and tell me what I need to know. I do not imagine, that would require that Jesus get down off his seat on the right hand of God and be here with me.
Believers have the anointed one in them, spiritually and figuratively speaking, Colossians 1:27
With Christ in me, with scriptures,with gifted ministers to teach, lead and guide, I am fine without Jesus and I conversing here and now.
He is the head of the body, I am sure that keeps him busy enough not to drop in for lunch with me.