I beg to differ with you. Jesus said:
Indeed He did.
The old testament tells us the following.
Indeed it does.
Now what is eternal life? Knowing God. Nothing more and nothing less. Salvation is relational not theological. And who is God? A person who displays everlasting kindness.
You're forgetting something:
When does God show mercy?
Answer: When someone repents.
If they have not repented, then no mercy can be shown, and thus, that "everlasting kindness" does not come into play.
I have no clue if you're married
Sadly, I'm not.
but did your wife when you first me her begin your aquaintence by insulting and mocking you? Is that what caused you to fall in love with her? Or would that have turned you completely off? The same goes for everyone we mock and/or insult. So does God draw people to Himself by mocking and insulting those He desires to save?
This begs the question that all mocking is unloving.
Which is what we've been discussing.
To answer your question:
If I met a woman who liked me, but criticized me for something that I do, even mocked me for it, that is wrong or unbecoming, I would be over the moon! Because it tells me that she has a good head on her shoulders.
I probably wouldn't like it, but if what I was doing that she mocked me for was harmful or detrimental in some way, and her mocking me made me aware of that fact, that I would change my behavior, then yes, such actions WOULD, in fact, make me fall in love with her.
Have you just never heard of the term "tough love"?
It's when you have to enforce certain, usually painful, conditions upon someone you love for their wellbeing.
Love is the commitment to the good of someone.
If you truly love someone, you are going to do everything you can to promote their wellbeing, even if that means doing something that would normally be considered unpleasant.
For example, in order to discipline their son, who has constantly disobeyed them to such a degree that it's becoming difficult for him to remain in the home, the parents might choose to establish an ultimatum: Either follow the rules of this house, or we're going to kick you out onto the street, and change the locks on our doors. "We love you, but we cannot have you disrupting the rest of the family with your behavior."
Spanking is another example of tough love, and in this discussion, would me more analogous to being rude than the above.
God chastises those whom He loves. (Hebrews 12:6)
If He didn't love the Pharisees, then He wouldn't have chastised them, let alone publicly.
If He ONLY loved the Pharisees, then He wouldn't have rebuked anyone else, but He even condemned three entire cities, because they were the cities in which He did the most miracles, yet they still didn't repent and follow Him.
I'd say say love is the greatest motivating power in the universe.
I'd argue that hunger ranks up there as well, but that's a topic for a different discussion...
Scripture says "the blueness of a wound cleanseth away evil."
It's speaking about spanking, particularly, but this can apply figuratively to rebuke.
Love is definitely a strong motivator, especially to use harsh language, in love.