The same applies to the words "destroy" and "perish". They don't mean "ceased to exist".
They are more akin with the meaning of a state of ruin.
Coupled with the fact that "death" doesn't have to mean "cease to exist", you should consider how this all fits in with the scriptures that do present the dead/perished with conscious existence.
are you conscious when you are asleep?
are you conscious when you are dead?
are you conscious when you suffer the second death in the lake of fire?
I have noted that the most condemning people are those whose minds and hearts think God is cruel like them.
It suits their personality.
It is better to get to know the real Jesus Christ.
Luk 6:35 But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
Luk 6:36 Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.
Luk 6:37 Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:
Luk 6:38 Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.
Joh 3:17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
Joh 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
Joh 3:19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
Joh 3:20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
Joh 3:21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
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