Here Jesus promises us IF YOU are obedient:
Matthew 6:14
For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
You will not even be forgiven IF YOU do not forgive other people!
Matthew 6:15
But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
John 8:31
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Then Jesus said to those Judeans who had believed him, "If you continue to follow my teaching, you are really my disciples
John 13:17
Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.
John 15:10
If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love.
John 15:14
You are my friends if you do what I command.
1 John 2:3 And by this we may know that we know Him--if we obey His commands.
John 14:15 NET "If you love me, you will obey my commandments.