Then you also teach that sinners Christ died for are still lost, meaning you dont believe Christ's death in and of itself saves sinners !
I actually did not expect you to reply to my post.... Anyways...
Just because I believe "Christ died for all, but not all will accept Him" does not mean that I don't believe that "Christ's death in and of itself saves sinners." That is a non-sequitur.
In fact, I believe it (Christ's death, burial, and resurrection) does, it saves the sinners who accept Him as their Savior (hence why he's called Savior). To clarify, God DID die for all mankind, but only those who receive him will inherit eternal life.
God cannot, I repeat, CANNOT, save someone who does not want to be saved. He cannot force someone to love Him. He cannot force someone to live with Him who doesn't want to live with Him and remain healthy.
Consider again the two men, one man takes a woman and forces himself upon her, taking her to his home and boarding up the doors and windows, commanding her to love him, whereas the second man woos a woman, always telling her that if she doesn't want to be with him, she can leave at any time, who doesn't force himself upon her, but respects her.
The God of Calvinists is that first man. He is sick, and unhealthy.
The God of the Bible however, is not sick, He is not unhealthy, and He is like the second man.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that
whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. - John 3:16
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John3:16&version=NKJV
“ For gar this hout?s is how God theos loved agapa? · ho the ho world kosmos: he gave did?mi his ho one and only monogen?s Son hyios · ho that hina everyone pas who ho believes pisteu? in eis him autos should not m? perish apollymi but alla have ech? eternal ai?nios life z?? . - John 3:16
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John3:16&version=MOUNCE