Rape victims

[Ktoyou]

She deserves somebody who loves and cares for her enough to help her see the risk she has exposed herself to and will help her get out of that lifestyle before she suffers worse consequences. She deserves God's love and compassion from those of us who claim to have Jesus in our hearts.

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This is how a good man responds, not that hostile nonsense. Not saying it because I am well in agreement with CM all the time either.

 

[patrick jane]

You labor under an illusion that anyone here gives half-a-rat's-hind-end what you think?

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[ClimateSanity]

You labor under an illusion that anyone here gives half-a-rat's-hind-end what you think?

This is your response to a perfectly valid post? The posts coming from Tambora appear to lack any form of reasoned thinking. It is all coming from emotion. Therefore, it is necessary to ask some pertinent questions. If Tambora sees nothing wrong whatsoever with slutty behavior, then her emotional posts become clearer and we know why she does so.

 

[bybee]

This is your response to a perfectly valid post? The posts coming from Tambora appear to lack any form of reasoned thinking. It is all coming from emotion. Therefore, it is necessary to ask some pertinent questions. If Tambora sees nothing wrong whatsoever with slutty behavior, then her emotional posts become clearer and we know why she does so.

I do not believe Tambora has stated just a thing.
And since the response appeared under my name it is reasonable to assume that the response was mine.

 

[Tambora]

The posts coming from Tambora appear to lack any form of reasoned thinking.

You are a moron if you think me saying that no one deserves to be raped shows a lack of any form of reasoned thinking.

It is all coming from emotion.

No it's not all coming from emotion, you moron.
But I will tell you this .... the day someone shows no emotions for a rape victim will be a sad day indeed.

If Tambora sees nothing wrong whatsoever with slutty behavior,

I defy you to find one place where I even suggested that.

then her emotional posts become clearer and we know why she does so.

You're a moron.

 

[patrick jane]

What about when slutty is hired and wanted ?. A stripper at a batchelor party, getting hired to dance and perform at a bachelor or frat party. This is how she makes money and she doesn't do it to get raped

 

[Tambora]

What about when slutty is hired and wanted ?. A stripper at a batchelor party, getting hired to dance and perform at a bachelor or frat party. This is how she makes money and she doesn't do it to get raped

That's been my point all along.
No one deserves rape no matter what the behavior is prior to the rape.

 

[bybee]

Past, and I hope present and future as well.


But, from that group, you were my only real friend.

Up until this issue came up I had considered you and I to be friends.
We shall likely never agree on this but in the past we had many areas of agreement. I am sorry that this has become so unpleasant. I'd like to move on and let sleeping dogs lie?
:straight: Can we do that?

 

[CabinetMaker]

Good post, and that's another side of the word "deserve". But, she also deserves some consequences that will cause her to see that certain behavior is dangerous. Some people can just be told, while others require something more dire. We often learn more from pain than we do anything else. We learn to be careful. You can't always love someone into good behavior....encouragement does not always work.

I've known women who didn't learn a thing until they had their children take away....even then some won't learn...they refuse to change. Sometimes consequences are not pleasant, but they always serve some kind of lesson. To deny their value is a shame.

That doesn't mean she deserves it. She may suffer nasty consequences for failing to change her ways but that does not mean she deserved them.

 

[Totton Linnet]

This is your response to a perfectly valid post? The posts coming from Tambora appear to lack any form of reasoned thinking. It is all coming from emotion. Therefore, it is necessary to ask some pertinent questions. If Tambora sees nothing wrong whatsoever with slutty behavior, then her emotional posts become clearer and we know why she does so.

Why are wimmin slutty? men are Jack the lads, it's all in a day's experience for them to flaunt themselves, dress sensually, leer and be as tarty as they are expected to be.

If men are like that how on earth do you expect women to be like St. Theresa?

Women have needs . they have desires, none of them involves brutality.

Women must have the greater protection.

 

[ClimateSanity]

I do not believe Tambora has stated just a thing.
And since the response appeared under my name it is reasonable to assume that the response was mine.

That's the reason GD asked the question. Tambora has not been forthcoming on what she believes. A person who thinks slutty behavior is acceptable would be responding the way she does. I'm not saying that is the only reason a.person would respond that way.

 

[ClimateSanity]

Why are wimmin slutty? men are Jack the lads, it's all in a day's experience for them to flaunt themselves, dress sensually, leer and be as tarty as they are expected to be.

If men are like that how on earth do expect women to be St. Theresa?

Women have needs . they have desires, none of them involves brutality.

Women must have the greater protection.

So you are blaming the sluttiness of some women on the behavior of men?

 

[Tambora]

Tambora has not been forthcoming on what she believes.

Oh yes I have!

A person who thinks slutty behavior is acceptable

Again, I defy you to find a single place where I have even suggested that.

 

[Tambora]

So you are blaming the sluttiness of some women on the behavior of men?

Isn't that what ya'll are doing?
Blaming the sluttiness of a rapist on the behavior of women?

 

[Quetzal]

Tambora has not been forthcoming on what she believes.

Really? I feel like that is one of the only consistencies in this thread.

 

[Tambora]

Really? I feel like that is one of the only consistencies in this thread.

Yep.

I'll say it again ....

No one deserves to be raped no matter what the behavior was prior to the rape.

 

[Totton Linnet]

So you are blaming the sluttiness of some women on the behavior of men?

They are human...if the men are bad so are the women, but women do not use brutality.

 

[Tambora]

Up until this issue came up I had considered you and I to be friends.
We shall likely never agree on this but in the past we had many areas of agreement. I am sorry that this has become so unpleasant. I'd like to move on and let sleeping dogs lie?
:straight: Can we do that?

I can.

 

[bybee]

I can.

Amen Sister!

 

[ClimateSanity]

They are human...if the men are bad so are the women, but women do not use brutality.

More.confusion. what is your point? Nobody ever slutty women are not human. You are missing a few connecting points and I'm not even sure what your main point is.