What commandment to get married?1 - Please Untellectual, I am sure you can do better than that! The commandment to get married could not have been given to the unborn.
Certainly marriage can only involve those who have already been born.
In the Bible there are commands for different people. It is important to know all of these commands, but they don't apply to every person.
For example, there are commands for men and commands for women. They are different. They are not the same commands. But if you are a married man for certain you should know both.
Jesus is a Jew, correct. Are you saying the 613 commands of Torah are not for me?2 - Do you know something Untellectual? You don't have to worry about this. That commandment was given to the Jews, not the Gentiles. If Jesus was not a Jew we would not be talking about this today.
Where is your rule that a Rabbi must be married?3 - Nah!!! Really! How could I have missed that!
4 - And I believe he didn't. First, because he was Jewish and, second, because he was a Rabbi aka Master. (John 3:1,2)
Do you trust the Biblical record? Do you trust the Biblical record as it pertains to Jesus? Do you believe Jesus' life is recorded in the words of the Bible?5 - Probably, because you are a Christian.
Some have decided that because Jesus is married to the church He not ever married to any one person.6 - Hence, you have decided that Jesus remained single all his life.
My line of reasoning is different. It is that the Bible does not say Jesus was ever married... so when it speaks to the church (or, Israel) as the bride of Christ, it makes sense.
I don't know who the bridegroom was. Do you believe it was Jesus?7 - So, who was the bridegroom in Cana? John? Any other of the apostles? If none, why was Jesus invited? Why was Mary the person in charge?
What is embarrassing to me is that I am talking to you and you bring up something you don't understand and imply I should be embarrassed by it.8 - Have you ever read II Cor. 5:7? Paul said that Christians are supposed to walk by faith and not by sight aka understanding. Probably Paul wanted you to believe what he said and to leave the understanding with him. Embarrassing, isn't it?
I don't know who the bridegroom was. Do you believe it was Jesus?Who provided the good wine for the end of the wedding? Jesus did it. So, who was the bridegroom the headwaiter called to ask why he had reserved the best wine to the end? Do you have any idea?