Then, you added to His finished work at the Cross, because as you say, 'Jesus did not save me UNTIL I, GT, OBEYED HIM'.
It is not adding to his work on the cross.
Jesus saves us all on his own, and he chooses those whom he will save.
Jesus saves those who obey. You could not care one bit about God’s Truth. You only care about the nonsense you were taught.
You reject the scriptures. Jesus saves those who obey. See Acts 5:32, and John 14:23.
What you said to Him was, "Jesus, what you did at the Cross of Calvary was not enough, let me OBEY you this way your work on the Cross will be completed and then you will save me."
Jesus says he saves those he is PLEASED to save, see John 5:21 NIV.
Jesus saves those who are on the side of truth, see John 18:37.
Jesus saves those who do right and come to the light, see John 3:21.
Jesus saves those he accepts, see Acts 15:8 NIV.
Jesus accepts those who fear God and does what is right, see Acts 10:35.
Jesus saves those who obey, see Acts 5:32.
Jesus saves those who practice what he preaches, see Luke 8:21.
Jesus saves those who get his teachings and obeys them, see John 14:23.
Lifeisgood, your pastor cannot give you the Holy Spirit, neither can your spouse, your relative, your neighbor, or friend. Only Jesus can give the Holy Spirit, and he gives it to those who obey.