I like Memphis style ribs, also a nice Memphis pork, but I prefer cubed to pulled. And in-sauce. I usually prefer a somewhat basted wet rib to an only dry rub rib, but I can also do with a traditional no-sauce rib. I like some char on the ribs, and I like a sauce that's mostly very hot with about 25% sweet. Never have been able to prepare BBQ nearly as good as a BBQ place, so I can't say much on the actual preparation.
On the grill, I like a steak. Ribeye, no bone, about 1.5-2 inches thick, with some olive oil, lots of black pepper & course sea salt for a couple of hours, then some more black pepper and sea salt with some clarified butter for about 15-20 minutes. About 4 minutes high temp grill on one side, a bit more clarified butter before the flip, about 4 more minutes grill on the 2nd side, sometimes one more flip, for about 1 minute. I like some char on the outside.