Originally Posted by derwood
50 million unwanted babies aborted? Had they been born, we'd have millions of unwanted children
1) Adoption ensures (or dramatically improves the chance that) that babies and children are wanted.
Yes, and we know that ALL children put up for adoption are adopted, and adopted by caring, loving families. Yup.
2) You have seriously underestimated the charm of a baby - his ability to worm his way into the hearts of his parents.
Yes, of course - ALL babies are loved by their parents, whether they were wanted/planned or not.
Except, of course, for the ones that He allows to die in utero, or the ones in the bellies of those deemed unworthy and are then ordered to be killed:3) All are wanted by someone... God, for instance.
Hosea 13:16
Samaria shall become desolate; for she hath rebelled against her God: they shall fall by the sword: their infants shall be dashed in pieces, and their women with child shall be ripped up.
But I am sure that was 'different'.
Babies grow up, do they not? Is it really your position that childhood traumas do not persist in the minds of adults?and adults
Excuse me??? What does that even mean? Are you suggesting that all babies who are not planned wind up being unwanted for all their lives? That's asinine.
THAT is asinine.
And this:
will need support from a cited study - one that eliminates the influence of poverty (since poverty is the number one marker for troubled childhood).many of whom would have had horrible lives (many studies have shown that unwanted children suffer from all sorts of problems at higher rates than wanted ones),
http://www.aafp.org/afp/990315ap/1577.html
http://www.prochoiceforum.org.uk/psy_ocr2.php
Poverty, of course, plays a major role. Women living in poverty are more likley than wealthy conservatives to be unable to afford birth control, prenatal healthcare, etc. another mouth to feed can create a great deal of stress.
Would you agree?
Right, of course not. better to trust the cherry-picked information from a member of Physicians for Life.born into poor families
as I thought - your source didn't separate the two things (lack of planning and poverty) which makes it a poor study yielding absolutely no trustworthy information.
Because I mean, poor families always love their additional children.
- would you support helping these families out? with maybe welfare, or WIC?
What's wrong with community support? What's wrong with soup kitchens and homeless shelters and for that matter, what's wrong with adoption?
Well, your fellow Christian Knight says soup kitchens are bad. Commuities - especially the communities that have expendable cash - generally don't want such folk around.
Adoption is fine, but many Americans seeking to adopt want good looking very young babies with no family history of drug abuse, etc.
I suspect not.
But killing the baby is better? Is that your position?
Humans have been controlling their population levels for centuries, probably for all time. And often, they do so by commiting infanticide or inducing abortion through many means.
Aborting an early term fetus is, yes, IMO, better than having to deal with all of the related problems of unwanted children.
Why not kill all the poor then if they have such horrible lives? Put them out of their misery.
Many of them seem to be doing that to themselves.
Right, except for the fact that miscarriage results in the death of an unborn baby. No relation at all. Almost as emotional as the anti-abortion rhetoric one sees.This is emotion-baiting if I've ever seen it. Miscarriage has nothing to do with killing the unborn.Of course, 50 million elective abortions pales in comparison to the nuber of spontaneous abortions - i.e., little babies killed by God in the womb....