I disagree. I will let you come to my house and wait for years amidst mounds of rotting garbage for my kid to take the garbage out of his own accord without being commanded to. Then you will see that ONLY when YOUR will overcomes HIS will, will the garbage be taken out. My kid's will to put up with the smell of garbage supersedes his will to take the garbage out.
His will needs to be made willing to do otherwise, whether by realizing the consequences that are not worth bearing, or by his coming to understand the benefits of removing the garbage.
So, in short, he WILL at some time take that garbage out, either by command when he is unwilling, or by a willingness of his own. . . .
There is no UNWILLINGNESS on the part of the elect in Calvinism, my brother. Here's the "I" of TULIP:
Irresistible Grace:
When God calls his elect into salvation, they cannot resist. God offers to all people the gospel message. This is called the external call. But to the elect, God extends an internal call and it cannot be resisted. This call is by the Holy Spirit who works in the hearts and minds of the elect to bring them to repentance and regeneration whereby they willingly and freely come to God.
Your brand of Calvinism is foreign to John Calvin. But I'd say it's a slight change for the better.
Why not consider my position that people are not born in sin but born in Christ all because God implemented the plan of salvation He devised before the beginning of time, (2 Tim 1:8-10; Eph 1:3-5) by saving Adam through Christ (Acts 4:12) that same day he fell into sin and reinstated him to his pre-fall spiritual status, an act that cost the Father His only begotten Son - the Lamb slain from the foundation of the world (Rev 13:8)? With Adam in Christ, ALL his descendants are born in Christ!
That gracious saving act of God was manifested / revealed in the life, death, resurrection and heavenly ministry of our Lord. Born in Christ, people have His power to repent. This is why in the gospel that He preached, Christ called people to repent, having been empowered to. The same call God made in the OT (Ezek 18:30); the same call to repent He now commands every man everywhere to do (Acts 17:30).
Repentance is a change of mind for that which is good. Instead of doing evil, do good. IOW, overcome evil with good (Rom 12:21). Overcomers will not be blotted out from the book of life and will be seated with Christ in His throne even as He also overcame and sat down with the Father in His throne (Rev 3:5, 21). All not blotted out will be allowed entry into the heavenly portals (Rev 21:27); all blotted out will have their portion in the lake of fire (Rev 20:15). Also see Rom 2:5-11.
Any objection? Just post them. I'll try my best to address each of them when I come back from an appointment. And of course, THROUGH Scriptures.