Uh, unless you have not noticed, Lon has determined that only church officials can make such determinations, and the lay persons are not allowed a witness to their faith.
And now TH has weighed in with his own denominational and ecumenical declarations . . .
I defend not only myself against such limitations and strictures, but in principle, defend you too.
Go gripe to Lon and TH . . . not me . . .
church officials
Hirelings usually self-appointed or man appointed, Makes me wonder what judgement the people they rule over are under. Their notion of a clergyman puts the Holy Spirit out of the ecclesia and places the man in the centre.
Yah Shua Messiah said, ''my sheep know my voice and will not follow the voice of a stranger'', these men have very strange voices.
The Holy Spirit will not allow a true child to sit under the ministry of these hirelings and will make a way out for them. It's always a wrench, because when we sit under the false ministry they teach that you must continue to fellowship together. Which is true, but what they have is not fellowship. Like you Nang the only comfort I had was if the scripture readings were unhurried and reverent, but that was not usually the case.
In Wales we have working mens clubs, that are run by committees, and you can almost guarantee to find someone in the club who sits on the committee with the attitude of lon. You must listen to me, because I'm on the committee. While your in the club he will be watching every move you make to insure 'you' don't break any rules'. If you dare to laugh and enjoy he'll be resentful and show it.
I have no doubt whatsoever that your husband and you did the right thing. One minute of true fellowship is better than a month of Sundays.
Agape, H.