your argument is conjecture and you contradict yourself ,you say aionios does not apply to humans but then applies to humans
this verse is speaking about human beings whose existence will be everlasting
Mat 25:46 And these shall go away into everlasting punishment, but the righteous into everlasting life.
lake of fire
Rev 20:14 And death and hell were thrown into the Lake of Fire. This is the second death.
Rev 20:15 And if anyone was not found having been written in the Book of Life, he was thrown into the Lake of Fire.
the duration of the punishment is determined by the word in front of it "eternal"
These people are dead and standing which you have not addressed
Rev 20:12 And I saw the dead, great and small, standing before the throne,
Mat 8:22 And Jesus said to him, "Follow me, and leave the dead to bury their own dead."
Dan 12:2 And many of those who sleep in the dust of the earth shall awake, some to everlasting life, and some to shame and everlasting contempt.
strawman ,nobody says God is torturing anybody .
the lost will be destroyed but still exist
people of Sodom destroyed but still exist
Luk 17:29 But the same day that Lot went out of Sodom it rained fire and brimstone from heaven, and destroyed them all.
Mat 10:15 Verily I say unto you, It shall be more tolerable for the land of Sodom and Gomorrha in the day of judgment, than for that city.
well ... if one wants to believe that the lost, that may include ones good friends, family members etc will live in a burning fire for eternity and that God is ok with that ... then that's up to them/you. If the lost are or will burn in hell for eternity I can't think of anything more torturing than that. Even most of us humans recognize torture is not "ok".