So do you, albeit in a different way as to the traditional 'hellfire' doctrine but I'll expound on why further in.
Of course not.
And what do we call that kind of person?
Does sick, perverted, psychopath work?
If he's won her heart then she obviously does. I know where you're going with this but it doesn't work.
Which of the two men more accurately represents God, in your opinion?
Allow me to expand on the second scenario.
Let's say that man had a relationship with another woman prior to the woman above who became his wife, and he gave her the same options as the one he's currently married to, but she rejected his offer, and left him. Should he still marry her and keep her with him? Would it be right for him to do so?
If beings are kept 'alive' in a state of suffering from which they can't escape, be that physical or psychological then do the math.
So if God were to keep someone in heaven, even though they don't want to be there, and they can't escape, and they hate God, would that not be hell for them?
See, if you take all the people who would be in hell and then put them in heaven, you would turn heaven into hell.
Hell is just the name we give to the place where people who hate God go.
Which is barbaric, cruel and serves no purpose.
Would it not be barbaric, cruel, and serve no purpose, to keep them with Him when they don't want to be with Him?
You seem to be arguing on the one hand that God won't force people to be with Him
Stop there, and you'll have my point.
but He will force them to endure an eternity of suffering for not getting things 'right' in one brief speck of an existence
See my point below about missing the mark.
no matter how much regret or remorse such people may have.
The people who reject God, whom God will cast into the lake, would rather kill God to vindicate themselves, than humble themselves and repent of their sin.
That's what people did when Christ came for three years, teaching about His kingdom, about eternal life. Both Jews and Gentiles put Him to death because he offered them salvation from their sin.
No, what is not love is forcing someone to be where they don't want to be.
Art, would you agree with this statement:
"There's no greater love than to lay down one’s life for his friends."
Pain is both physical and psychological else the next time you stub your toe or break a bone or something then you tell yourself it doesn't exist.
So what if you cut your toe off and then stub it? You don't feel any pain of having stubbed your toe, do you? Pain is awareness. Awareness is knowledge of stimulation is not physical, therefore pain is not physical.
If pain were physical, then why do women feel pain when they lose a child? There is nothing physical being done to them, so how are they feeling pain?
I am not denying that physical things can cause pain, because clearly, if you stab someone in the chest, it will hurt. I am saying that the pain itself is not physical.
There are people who deal with chronic physical pain conditions that would very likely take issue with you.
They would have to get around the fact that knowledge is not physical.
Now in a 'meaningful' sense the pain of loss is something different altogether and having been someone who's experienced such along with a crippling depression at one time then I don't make light of either the physical or the psychological side of suffering.
It's still pain, is it not? I mean, you even said, "the pain of loss."
Why would a loving God leave people in any state of suffering?
Because they chose that suffering over being with the One who can wipe away their tears.
Why not just annihilate them if there were no reconciliation possible?
Because annihilation of something that was designed to be eternal is not possible.
Then that's just cruel beyond words and what purpose does it serve? 'Justice'? Nobody comes into this world by choice and life can be one obstacle course to navigate as it is. A sadistic entity could do no worse and yet this is not only a God of love but actually is love?
Arthur, what alternative would you propose that would make everyone happy?
Yes. If God has set things up so that life is created and the ones who don't find faith in this one physical lifetime are sent into such a state then who else?
God is not present in the Lake of Fire. He cannot be the one doing the torturing.
Try again. Who is the one causing the suffering?
Here's a hint:
Blaming God is wrong because it's pointing a finger at God and telling Him that he's doing something contrary to His nature. He is not the author of evil.
This isn't like your earlier analogies about men trying to force women to fall in love with them, this is a God who could surely (and in the bible wills) bring all people to the 'truth' yes?
You can't force someone to love you. They have to have the option to hate you, or else they cannot love. Love is freely given. It cannot be coerced. You can't demand someone to love you, because that's not what love is.
But what about those who reject the truth? What do you propose God should do about them? God shoved the truth in Pharaoh's face, and Pharaoh hardened his heart against it. In fact, throughout the Bible, God shows that shoving truth in people's faces almost always turns them away from it. Why would God want to turn people away from Him by doing so?
After all, if God exists then everyone is going to find out for sure
God has already proven He exists. People don't have to wait until that point in there existence to acknowledge He exists, because by then it will be too late. The heavens declare God's handiwork, He wrote two books, the Bible, and Nature. He gave the world a written law to live by, after showing that having no law leads to the world becoming evil. He performed miracles for His people, the Israelites, and then put those miracles, along with the law, in a box as evidence of His actions. He delivered his people countless times against His enemies, even when their armies were greater than His people. He even performed miracles during His ministry on earth, for three years he came as a witness, hoping to get His people to turn to Him, so that He could then send them to the world. But His people utterly rejected Him, and so He sent Paul to the world.
Every person who has ever turned their hearts to God is evidence that He exists.
but for you it seems that even the most ardent and contrite atheist is going to be forced into an eternal state of suffering no matter what
Even the most ardent atheist is ardently wrong.
If he is contrite about what, exactly? His sin? Then why doesn't he repent about it now, and turn to God?
The Bible says that all have fallen short. We have all missed the mark when it comes to being righteous.
It also says that there is only one Way to heaven, and that is Jesus Christ.
because of this snapshot of a life on earth. Does that strike you as loving?
So you think God should give everyone a second chance after they die? That after an arbitrary amount of time, God should let them out of the lake for a while to see if they would repent?
Here's an analogy:
An archer, standing 50 feet away from a target must be nearly perfect in his aim, his stance, and he must be in control of his body to hit the dead center of the target. Move that target another 50 feet back and he must be even more so. 150 feet, and it's not likely that he'll hit the target, let alone the bullseye, though he may get close to hitting the target. Now move it 1000 feet away from him. 10,000 feet. 1 mile. 100 miles. 1,000,000 miles. Move it to the outer limits of what we can see in our universe. Now double that. Again. Again, times 1 billion.
The archer could never hit something that's that far away, and you'd have to be more accurate than that to hit the mark of being righteous. Infinitely more so.
That's how hard it is to get to heaven on your own. You can't do it. That's why God the Father, who out of love for us, sent us God the Son, His Son Jesus, to hit that mark or us, to live a perfect life, to die for us, so that we can be with Him for eternity.
"There's no greater love than to lay down one’s life for his friends."
Is that true, Arthur?
But definitely not a Christian, right?
Yours is really no better. You still depict a cruel and tormenting God.
Again I ask, what should be the alternative?
Then maybe you should evaluate why you think any sort of interminable suffering is 'just' and how that that correlates to a God of love.
What do you propose God should do that would make Him more "loving" to you?
We all have an ego...
No, I'm asking you if you can relate to people being through such loss simply not believing there's a God out there to blame at all.
Of course people can go through pain and loss without believing there's a God.