It might do you well, IP, to do a word study - in the Scripture - as to the actual sense of the phrase "the gates of hell."
I'm glad, by the way; you got over your thought to put me on ignore; you shouldn't let anyone rattle your cage to such extremes.
Use such moments instead to practice patience in tribulation.
Believe me, I am far from the last of your opportunities to let Christ alone be the issue during such moments.
We will both be tried by the at times trying words and or actions not only of one another, but of others...time and again; rest assured such will remain the case.
Romans 5:1 Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ: 5:2 By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. 5:3 And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; 5:4 And patience, experience; and experience, hope: 5:5 And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.