Not true, but you can empathize with Calvinists on this particular, so it is a good observation, though not true. As I said, I can provide the
quotes as we go. Again, one at a time (this one where God has to literally come down to see what is happening in Sodom and Gomorrah and not knowing without actual physical eyes and presence).
Hilston is a smart man, but the point again is that words more often than not must be accompanied by context. Look for example at the word '
context.' The first definition means 'determines' whereas the second allows for a nebulous surrounding of words or things that
may not help define.
In this case, when I say "God planned my wife's cancer," your understanding or misunderstanding is crucial to communication. I admit, however, that we Calvinists do a lousy job at times of really helping another grasp what we are saying. We are great about saying "God is NOT evil for planning my wife's cancer," but not so great at explaining 'why.' I do agree with that BUT there is also an equal problem of running off and making videos based on a misunderstanding by the one who hears, but doesn't understand, what is being said. God was GOOD for/when planning my wife's cancer. Her doctors were good for planning my wife's cancer. It is to be understood afterwards, that by doctors planning, we are talking about treatment. Chemo and radiation were NOT nice YET the doctors were VERY good for planning that, etc. "How could they be good for doing that!!!!" It is very similar here, this thread. Very.
Let me leave this bit here for now. I'll respond to just a little bit more of your post in an ensuing post, but I'm trying to help with some of your frustration and perhaps help address the thread concern meaningfully as well. In Him -Lon