ApologeticJedi said:
Yes. It is still forcing. Everyone needs love, but it is wrong to try to force that on someone.
The kind of love we are talking about is self sacrificing.
It also NEVER FAILS.
It is not forcing people to love you when you love them. They, However, are much more likely to respond in love to you when you love them
Again, what if I never want God over me? Notice that you have no answer for this other than "that's not possible" to which the naivety and lack of reality of your position is exposed. Most people will never want God.
Well, let me make an attempt to explain better, then.
Nobody "wants" God over them....that is until they understand that it is a very GOOD thing if God is over them. In fact, they have a devilish disposition toward God...thinking God is only holding out on them and denying them what they want. They want to sin...and God says no.
The reality is that God isn't holding back anything good. And when you discover that God is good, and that He IS love...then you will begin to see that what He wants for you is all good. Then you come to Him because you know that the reason you are a sinner is because you are trying to fill a God shaped hole in yourself with all the wrong things, and the reason you didn't want God over you was wrong headed and wrong hearted.
That is when a sinner is saved. And even your very desire is redeemed and made right. You begin to welcome the remoulding that is working in your life by the Grace of God. You realize that you could not have done it on your own, no matter how hard you might have tried.
Salvation changes everything...including your will. It meets the need.
And, Jesus' death, burial and resurrection is far, far more effective than Adam and Eve eating a piece of fruit.
Hard to put an exact beginning on it. Pretty much from the third post on.
And why do you think that?
Probably because you thought eternal torment was true to begin with. It's what you were taught, after all...so why wouldn't you think that? What I'm saying goes against your plausibility structure...and would work in the same way as telling someone that believes the Sun revolves around the Earth that the opposite is true.