would you rather be violated against your will or have burning sulfur rained down on you?
Depends on who is raining down the sulfur. Is God doing it? Then I'd rather face God's punishment than be raped by some creep.
You are comparing God punishing people for their sinful behavior to some random guy raping a girl for his own sick enjoyment. They aren't the same.
A better comparison, even if it still fails, would be if God uses another nation to attack Israel as punishment for going astray. Then the attacking nation might be analogous to the rapist. But there would still be questions about how active God is in making the events happen. I refuse to believe God would play an active role in someone raping a girl as punishment for her actions.