Discipline.Do you think spanking a child Abuse or discipline?
Discipline.
Do you think spanking a child Abuse or discipline?
When a child cringes in fear or hides because he knows the belt, switch or wooden spoon is coming, that child is abused - both mentally and physically.
Do you think spanking a child Abuse or discipline?
Do you think spanking a child Abuse or discipline?
Depends. It should never be done in anger.
When a child cringes in fear or hides because they know they're going to be punished for something they did, knowing that it was wrong - that's abuse? :freak:
That has no relation to the subject at hand whatsoever.When I choose to drink a bottle of scotch and roar down the back roads at ninety miles an hour knocking over mailboxes for the sheer fun of it, am I "abused" when the cop pulls me over and approaches the car?
You don't think so? You think it's a good thing for a child to cringe or hide because he knows he's going to be hit?
That has no relation to the subject at hand whatsoever.
I think it's a good thing for a child to fear punishment for wrongdoing.
If I thought the cop was going to haul out his baton and hit me repeatedly with it, I'd be pretty terrified.I'm sorry you don't see the relevance.
When I deliberately misbehave (break the law) while driving, I expect consequences. I fear them. I try to avoid them. I hide from them.
But I would not describe that as the law abusing me.
Punishment? You've jumped boats midstream.
Keep the terminology where it was and then say it:
"I think it's a good thing for a child to fear being hit for wrongdoing."
Still think that's a good thing?
If I thought the cop was going to haul out his baton and hit me repeatedly with it, I'd be pretty terrified.
Is that likely to happen when he pulls me over? No.