lovemeorhateme
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Originally Posted by aCultureWarrior
So you wouldn't recommend something you know nothing about?
How about we applaud those "some [who] say it helped" in their conversion from homosexuality to a normal healthy lifestyle and treat them as we do all other unbelievers and share the gospel with them?
As I have already said, if they went through such therapy and consider themselves changed then good for them.
To go through such therapy without coming to know Christ as Lord and Saviour is in vain, is it not? Would you rather they seek conversion therapy first and give them the gospel later? If the focus is not on Jesus, the focus is wrong.
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Wouldn't it be nice if it were up to the parents of children who are struggling with same sex desires and gender identity confusion in states like CA and New Jersey? Unfortunately parental rights have been taken away in those and other states and as I mentioned in a previous post, it may very well become a federal ban.
I think you'll find that when you marry and father children Pete that 12 year old children rarely know what's best for them.
I'm aware that 12 year olds don't know what's best for them. But I would seriously question why one would send a 12-year old to such therapy to begin with? I fear if it fails, it will only encourage the child to accept a homosexual identity.
Yet there are court ordered therapies for alcoholics and drug addicts who don't want to change.
Come now, surely you know that unless someone wants to change then these efforts are in vain?
The alternative is death. Which is better, to fail at something and try again until you succeed, or give into immoral thoughts and behaviors?
It's all very black and white to you, isn't it? Do you not think life has such things as nuances? You think that the only alternative to 'conversion therapy' is for that child or person to embrace a homosexual identity and end up dying young of an STI.
Well, there is another alternative. It's not often popular, it's not often talked about.. but it's celibacy and chastity. After all it was the Apostle Paul himself who said it's better for a man not to marry. In encouraging this, the focus moves away from 'turning straight' to following Christ and living according to God's will. When one does that, there is indeed a chance that one will see a change in their life like I did.