Arthur Brain
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Yet I've never heard that question asked by anyone other than people who have abnormal sexual desires (i.e. a homosexual).
People who have normal sexual desires and have never known anything else don't think or talk like this Art:
No Art, people with normal sexual desires just don't think or talk like that.
Of course they do when confronted with a supposedly straight man who tries to make out that sexual orientation is chosen and has such a morbid fixation with male homosexuality. Plenty of heterosexuals have asked you the very same on this thread alone. Your example is ludicrous as everyday folk don't have such an overriding obsession with gay men like yourself.
In addition, people with heterosexual desires don't invent up ever more lurid fantasies about heterosexual people being gay so you're really not doing yourself any favours with trying to speak on behalf of what straight people do frankly.
Again: Because I was fortunate enough to be raised in a loving home with a wonderful mom and dad, my environment made that choice for me.
As I've shown throughout this 3 part thread time and time again, not everyone has been that fortunate. Some children who have been sexually abused or that have an overbearing mother or absent father grow up sexually confused and turn to homosexuality:
In a 1979 article Irving and Toby Bieber reported that in their evaluations of over 1,000 male homosexuals, they did not find one "whose father openly loved and respected him."
http://www.theologyonline.com/forums/showthread.php?t=101920&page=357
Not one Art, not even one.
That being said: While many children had their abnormal sexual desires chosen for them, there is always a way out. As I've shown, thousands and thousands of people have done so through Christ (and sometimes with the help of professional therapy) and proudly call themselves "Ex-homosexuals".
A "study" from 1979?! From people who were discredited and that's your idea of "proof"? You really will just buy into anything won't you? Yeah, not everyone is fortunate enough to have a stable and loving family environment but to think homosexuality can only occur in surroundings where there isn't such a unit requires a special form of lunacy. If you truly think that every homosexual had to have been abused in some way in order to become one then you really are in denial of reality. You really shouldn't even mention 'professional therapy' as your ignorance on that should be embarrassing by now even to you...