Why did you become a Christian.
1 Did you think that going to Church and being obedient would be rewarded with favour?
2 Was it the fact that in church you might meet the ideal husband/wife?
3 Is going to church a habit or natural progression from being brought up in a Christian home?
4 Do you think that going to church is the right thing to do and you want to be seen as doing the right thing?
5 You’ve always been a christian and if you didn’t go to church, what would people think or say?
6 You are an incorrigibly superstitious person and you don’t want bad luck by not going to church?
Most of this does not apply to the majority of Christians on TOL.
From what I see, you are fighting with her as much as she is with you. Do you want the thread closed?