Robert, I do not think you understand the topic if this is what you believe. If the anti-Calvinist is going to complain about Calvinism, their complaints should at least reflect an accurate summary of what Calvinists actually believe about a topic. Otherwise, they appear foolish and guilty of merely parroting tired canards.
The eternal decree of God related to election includes all the means necessary required to actualize what has been specifically decreed.
Election is unto salvation by the ordinary means of hearing the good news. Predestination includes all the means necessary for regeneration (re-birth) and salvation. These means includes the believer's not not believing (calling upon the name of the Lord) via their own will once they have been given a new heart (Eze. 36:26), hence, the ability to believe that one did not possess beforehand.
AMR
The Bible plainly teaches that NOTHING happens until you hear and believe the Gospel.
God does not just zapp people with the Holy Spirit. You must hear and believe the Gospel, Galatians 3:2.
You must be born again by the word of God, which is the Gospel, 1 Peter 1:23.
It appears to me that you have never been born again by the word of God.
Just because you quote scripture does not mean that you are a Christian. The Pharisees also quoted scripture.