@Dougcho Please stop with the weird colors, and bolding your entire posts. It is against the forum rules.
I'm not saying you can't use color, but coloring your entire post, and bolding your entire posts, the latter is explicitly not allowed, and the former is annoying to have to deal with, and makes it harder to read.
All I ever said about Lydia was that ...
"The Lord opened her heart to heed the things spoken by Paul." (Acts 16:14, NKJV)
Does the Lord bless everyone in this way?
Is everyone given the gospel of Paul?
No?
Then the answer is no.
Which is why it's so important to go out and preach!
This proves to me that God chooses to really give some people the special opportunity to believe and be saved ... whilst NOT giving this experience to others!
That's not what it shows, though.
Once again, you're reading your Calvinist beliefs into the text.
What it says is:
Now a certain woman named Lydia heard us. She was a seller of purple from the city of Thyatira, who worshiped God. The Lord opened her heart to heed the things spoken by Paul.
Now a certain woman named Lydia heard us. She was a seller of purple from the city of Thyatira, who worshiped God. The Lord opened her heart to heed the things spoken by Paul.
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It just means that she was willing to listen to the gospel Paul preached, "to heed the things spoken by Paul."
Again, there's no "magical fairy dust" that God uses to open or harden people's hearts.
Please listen to this sermon:
If you must, you can skip to 11:55 where Will starts talking about what happened in verses 13 onwards. I do recommend listening to the whole thing, and preferably the entire series, if you have the time, found here:
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Ultimately, Lydia chose to believe ... obviously.
She was with other women praying to God, who met there every Sabbath.
If she was unregenerate, why was she praying to God, with other believing women?
God blesses who He wants to bless, etc.
Indeed!
But this wasn't some sort of "blessing" God made upon Lydia, though the gospel is indeed a blessing.
News Flash ... It is God's perogative!
(Hope I spelled that correctly.)
It's "prerogative." And indeed, God can bless whom He wants to bless.
But that's not the point of contention here.
Whom does God bless? Those who listen and believe.
People don't want God to carry out His perogative... they want Him to carry out their favorite doctrines.
Straw man.