No!
Is it loving to save some from justice for no reason and not others? I don't think those passed over feel it is very loving to be damned for their sins since they are not being saved like the sinner right next to him. How do you explain that GOD is loving them when HE ignores them to be saved while HE saves the next guy for no reason? Would you want to be loved that way, passed over for salvation for your sins in the name of love while other sinners are elected to salvation for no reason for that same love?
My goodness....
No!
Is it loving to save some from justice for no reason and not others? I don't think those passed over feel it is very loving to be damned for their sins since they are not being saved like the sinner right next to him. How do you explain that GOD is loving them when HE ignores them to be saved while HE saves the next guy for no reason? Would you want to be loved that way, passed over for salvation for your sins in the name of love while other sinners are elected to salvation for no reason for that same love?
My goodness....
It is extremely loving to die and take God's wrath to ransom a lawbreaker. If Jesus only died for one person it would be an example if extreme love.
What is unloving is to leave broken laws unpunished and turn your back on justice.
That is what you are demanding of God. It should shock you, but it doesn't.
If God justly sends me to hell for my lawbreaking, I have nothing to blame God about. It is a just decision.
If God chooses to random me, by placing my sin upon Jesus, then God has just been amazingly and supremely gracious because I did not deserve it.
Honestly, you are really twisted up to imagine you can blame God for your evil behavior.