This you wrote because I wrote that we are to obey God?
None of those things you have written can happen until we obey God. Without obedience there is no new birth, because God gives his Spirit to those who obey him. All the apostles obeyed Jesus, if they hadn't have obeyed him do you think that they would have been blessed with the Spirit? If they hadn't of left everything and followed Jesus when he said follow me. If Paul hadn't of done what he was told when he met Christ do you think that he would have been blessed with the Spirit? If those who were blind and lame didn't do what Jesus told them to do, do you think that they would have been healed?. No, they wouldn't. Christ Jesus was preaching the gospel of God and God was in him reconciling the world unto himself, but those who heard the word and truly believe are those who repent and obey through faith. And then in God's time we are blessed with the Holy Spirit by the grace of God.
We won't be blessed with the Spirit until we obey God, and we aren't saved until we are born again of the Spirit, because the Spirit of God comes with power, and helps us to overcome our flesh and this world, saving us from this untoward world of sin and death daily as we walk in the Spirit.
When Jesus saw the man in the temple, the man whom he had healed, and said to him that he must go and sin no more lest a worse thing come upon him, do you think that if the man has disobeyed him that he still would have been ok? No, he wouldn't, and we too we are to obey, when we know in our hearts that it is wrong before God to do something, we are to listen to our conscience and turn away and pray to God for strength and we are not to do it. We are to obey God. And if we are walking in the Spirit, through faith by the grace of God, we can overcome anything in this world, because he who is in those born of God, is stronger than he who is in the world.
We are not complete in God until we are born anew, and we are not born anew until we are blessed with the Holy Spirit within, and we are not blessed with the Spirit until we have true faith and obey God. And those born of God are dead and their lives hidden in Christ, because the ways of our flesh is dying as Christ is increasing in our hearts. As John the Baptist said, I must decrease and he must increase, and so it is for us, we must decrease and die to self, our old man gone, and start to turn away from sin daily, and Christ must increase and grow within our hearts, and once his life is made manifest in our hearts through the power of the Spirit, we are then strengthened to turn from sin and we are being changed and justified by being made just by the Spirit of Christ within
Acts 5:32
And we are his witnesses of these things; and so is also the Holy Ghost, whom God hath given to them that obey him.