That part about Eve being deceived. I have never understood where that has anything to do with culpability. Adam made an informed decision and Eve was deceived. I don't see how what Eve did was worse.
Can someone explain why that would make a difference in who is the boss?
It's not about culpability. It's about nature. Women are more likely bend under pressure, which is a negative aspect of their desire to please, which is a positive trait.
That said, rather than making a blanket statement as Paul SEEMS to do (though that's debatable), I think it's sufficient that all pastor candidates be scrutinized for their ability to stand for what's right in the face of popular opinion. There are women who are able to do this, but less than the number of men, I would venture to say.