I once felt the same, especially after my return from Vietnam. I spent quite a bit of my time afterwards protesting the "conflict", including a stint in the Weather Underground. Over time and increasing wisdom, I came to see the real ground of my dismay, that is, the government's stated commitment to the Vietnam campaign was never matched by its actions. The entire time I was "in country" I, and my co-combatants, never felt that the U.S. was sincere about winning the conflict. With all the rules for engagement in place, it was as if we had one hand tied behind us. How I welcomed my team's new salty Sergeants's advice while on long-range patrols deep in the jungle, about six months into my tour: "
If it moves shoot it. If it doesn't, shoot it and find out why it is not moving."
The South Korean's had it right while in Vietnam. They apparently did not subscribe to the Geneva Convention, and were feared by the VC and the North Vietnamese Army. Once, a convoy of South Koreans was ambushed along QL19 in the Central Highlands. "Ambush" is a loosely defined term here. Actually, someone fired a single shot at the convoy. So the South Koreans stopped the convoy and placed men along both sides of the parked vehicles. These soldiers then moved forward and burned everything in sight along both sides of the road (QL19) for about a half a mile. No one ever "ambushed" a convoy passing along this scorched earth again.
It was said that the VC or the NVA would allow a South Korean "Rock" patrol to pass through a waiting ambush, but the same ambushers lying in wait would open fire upon U.S. soldiers. The South Koreans took no prisoners, you see.
Now I know what I have written may shock and dismay some. I never entertained fleeing to Canada and did not regret my time served in Vietnam. What I regret and continue to fear, is that our country no longer has the stomach to enter into a conflict, war, etc., with
winning it as a genuine objective.
Queensbury's rules have no place in war, and until you have seen war up close and personal, speculating on how wars should be fought is but useless fodder for the cocktail crowd.
AMR