That's adorable ... how hard you try to make this all about those mean woman and long suffering guys. Seriously.
Anyways, no worries. I have been divorced since December 10, 1985 and received sole
physical custody of the two children we had in the marriage. Outside of the minimal amount of child support received, I got what I wanted. The children.
As far as my youngest daughter, I received sole physical AND legal custody of her.
The two homes that I own will go where they should when I am gone: to *my* children. What I got and left with from the marriage was by far the most valuable. The children.
There have been no multiple marriages. One was enough. At this point I would not remarry for the sole purpose of love. There would have to be some financial gain.