That's adorable ... how hard you try to make this all about those mean woman and long suffering guys. Seriously.
Anyways, no worries. I have been divorced since December 10, 1985 and received sole physical custody of the two children we had in the marriage. Outside of the minimal amount of child support received, I got what I wanted. The children.
As far as my youngest daughter, I received sole physical AND legal custody of her.
The two homes that I own will go where they should when I am gone: to *my* children. What I got and left with from the marriage was by far the most valuable. The children.
There have been no multiple marriages. One was enough. At this point I would not remarry for the sole purpose of love. There would have to be some financial gain.
You wouldn't be the first women to 110% win in a domestic court room. In fact, if you didn't, I could count you among the rest who haven't on my hands and toes
And I could guarantee you none of them had a female judge either, that's basically an automatic win for any female.
The children are ~yours~, until it comes to abortion or child support.