Thank you, 1Way, for your gracious reply.
What happens if they do not want to get married? Is that better or worse if they want to, or try to, refuse to get married? I’d say worse since God created the marriage bed to be kept holy and pure and never condones sex outside of that arrangement. Was that even an option, or was the marriage absolutely compulsory?
If “they” are the unmarried, consenting adults first suggested in Gary Nolan and Bob Enyart’s scenario,
nothing happens “legally.” Socially, and personally, and even “spiritually,” I’d say they’re not going to have an easy time of it, especially the woman. I’m fairly liberated, but as a not entirely reformed macho sexist pig I still believe in the institution of marriage which, ideally, protects the woman (and her children) from being socially ostracized, as well as from the specter of financial destitution should the “boyfriend” tire of his responsibilities as a pseudo-husband and father. Just because a behavior is “legal” it doesn’t mean there won’t be any negative consequences. “Big Macs” are “legal,” but have some of these people looked in a mirror lately? Marriage is good (although there are many bad marriages). Fornication is bad (although many unmarried couples live happily ever after). Other than the virgin bride price scenario, I’m unaware of “compulsory” marriage laws.
One might assume that if people are found having sex outside of marriage, then harlotry or prostitution may be applicable, and surely these are criminal acts as well. And I suspect that punishment for prostitution is far more severe than for our current example.
Hopefully this won’t make you angry with me again, but prostitution, which is simply another form of boinking between unmarried, consenting adults, is not a crime under biblical law. Like fornication, there is no law “criminalizing” prostitution, which is not to be misunderstood as a “promotion” of prostitution. What are “concubines,” if not sanctified “prostitutes”? That remark would get me a slap in the face from any self-respecting concubine, but the point is, concubines are
someone’s “unmarried daughter.” The only difference between a concubine and a harlot is that the concubine is VERY well paid! Technically, concubines are boinking a married man. Are concubines guilty of “adultery”? Strangely, no. At least one prophet married a prostitute. Prostitutes plied their trade at the city gates (under the noses of the ruling elders) and openly wooed young men into their perfumed bed chambers. Like fornication, there is no law criminalizing prostitution, and no anecdotal evidence suggesting prostitutes were ever charged with a crime. Again, what is “immoral” or “socially undesirable” under biblical law is not always “illegal.”
What seems certain is that there are no “emancipation” exceptions provided in scripture.
Not as certain as we might like. To my knowledge, the Bible is silent on “when” a child has reached the age of accountability, or emancipation, under biblical law. Traditionally, in Jewish culture, it’s my understanding that a child is emancipated and treated as an adult when he or she leaves the protection of the family home. If a young man steals, and cannot make restitution, and is living under his father’s roof, the father is liable. The father is not financially liable for children who are not under his authority, which appears to end when the child walks out the front door.
Implementing biblical law into the penal code doesn’t mean that in order for a society to be “biblical” it must also import or mimic Jewish “culture.” Since the Bible doesn’t speak specifically to “when” a child becomes an adult, the culture or traditions in place when biblical law is applied --from Western culture to Zulu culture -- have the “freedom” to draw that line anywhere they want. I’m making this up, but if a Zulu boy becomes a man after his first successful hunt, or when he marries and establishes his own home, and becomes “emancipate” in the eyes of “tribal” law, that’s as good a place as any to hold him accountable under “biblical” law. It’s perfectly feasible that emancipation and accountability “codes of conduct” already in place could vary from culture to culture, with no harm done to the meaning or intent of biblical law. At SOME point, however, the father is no longer
legally liable for the criminal behavior and stupid decisions of his adult children. Thank goodness.
Also, it is notable that the virgin status does not seem to apply to the male for some reason (could that aspect of the law be consider symbolic and not moral, may donate sexual purity suited for marriage like for the bride of Christ, even though she did play the harlot...), so that (=why only women have a virginity clause and not men) plus the dowry issue needs further clarification, i.e. was it law or criminal not to give a dowry, or was it just customary/tradition.
In order to understand this law, we must come to grips with the intent of the law. As stated, adultery and virgin bride price laws are property crimes, not sex crimes. As we’ve seen, “sexualizing” property crimes confuses the issue. Men are treated differently under biblical law because Jewish-Semitic
culture considers women to be the property of the father or the property of the husband. So, two dangers, as you’ve alluded to, need to be considered when applying biblical law: What is “symbolic” and no longer “binding,” and what is “cultural” and therefore “irrelevant.” It’s a point I’ve been
attempting to clarify without much support.
Sorry for not having better answers at the moment, and I appreciate your patience and understanding as I humbly admit my need to find more answers. I except answers should be available with some diligent study.
Not a problem. Sometimes the law is clear as day and hits like a hammer, sometimes the law is fuzzy and light as a feather. Sometimes answers come with study, sometimes not. There is no specific “answer” in Scripture, for example, on
how “precisely” biblical law should be applied in Zululand. I’m from the bottom-up school. When enough Zulu families implement biblical law in their hearts and homes, as a matter of faith and conscience, society will become “biblical” without the assistance of the federal government “imposing” biblical law (or Jewish “culture”) on the masses from above.
To clarify, are you promoting fornication beyond it should not be illegal? Or would you agree that it is a sin and represents sexual immorality, or what is your position on that?
I am not promoting fornication as a way of life, or as a substitute for marriage. I’ve been married for 25 years and never strayed off the reservation. My children are discouraged from engaging in sex out of wedlock, but I wouldn’t condemn or disown them or turn them over to the police if they did. Scripturally, fornication may be “immoral,” but if sin is a transgression of the law, as a technical matter, fornication is not a transgression of the law, and therefore not a “sin.” If sin is anything “immoral,” then fornication IS a sin. Depends on how you define “sin.” God may not “approve” of fornication, but for whatever reason fornication is not a “crime” under biblical law. This is the only point I’ve attempted to make. Enyart said fornication is a crime under biblical law, I disagreed. It doesn’t mean fornication is “okay” or “socially acceptable,” it means that regardless of how we “feel” about it “personally,” fornication is not a crime under “biblical” law. Enyart & Co. is “free” to agitate for any laws they want. I took issue with Bob because he was justifying what amounts to “extra”-biblical law by invoking the authority of the Bible. A
very slippery slope.
There is nothing in God’s word about “licensing”, emancipation, etc., I wish you would refrain from using such arbitrary off topic terms. The issue is if formation [fornication?] is criminal or not, and those terms are not only clear, they are simple and sufficient.
The “licensing” issue gets back to Bob’s debate with Gary Nolan. It was Bob’s opinion that the federal government should be empowered to enforce alleged “fornication” laws, and that unmarried (i.e., “unlicensed”) men and women caught “fornicating” should be arrested. Emancipation is a legal term for children formerly under the authority of their parents or guardian, but now treated in the eyes of the law as “free” or “emancipated” citizens with all the rights and responsibilities of an adult. If you have a better word to describe this condition, I won’t hold it against you if the word you choose doesn’t appear in the Bible. The issue of whether or not fornication is “legal” or “illegal” has, I believe, been settled.
I do not support criminalizing any non-criminal laws.
Precisely. On that issue we appear to be arguing the same point from different directions. Not unusual around here.
I’ve relaxed my condemnation and judgments for the time being. And thanks for holding me accountable for a matter that I admit I have not given enough consideration. Thanks in advance for patience as this matter is more thoroughly examined.
Thanks for engaging.