Should Victimhood Grant Immunity From Inspection?

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1PeaceMaker

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what's the alternative?


whine about it for the rest of your life?

I'm glad you asked because the context was a killer argument as to why a rapist gets more than just the fulfilment of a sexual urge. He gets to put someone's life in a tailspin.

Women's lives are changed. They stop going out, they stop seeking a mate and dreaming of being a wife with children, they stop wearing skirts and dresses (or start wearing cumbersome chastity belts for protection) they become emotionally reactive or easily startled.... and the changes can be permanent.

Why don't you just suck it up that your life was so drastically changed that you had two kids instead of half a dozen or whatever else a cool, long lasting relationship could have brought? I mean, it's obvious it bothers you to be a victim of abandonment by your wife. Get on with your altered life, already.

We hear how much it bothers you all the time....
 

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ok doser

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I'm glad you asked because the context was a killer argument as to why a rapist gets more than just the fulfilment of a sexual urge. He gets to put someone's life in a tailspin.

Women's lives are changed. They stop going out, they stop seeking a mate and dreaming of being a wife with children, they stop wearing skirts and dresses (or start wearing cumbersome chastity belts for protection) they become emotionally reactive or easily startled.... and the changes can be permanent.

not all of them - just the weak ones who think life should coddle them

Why don't you just suck it up that your life was so drastically changed so you had two kids instead of half a dozen or whatever else a cool, long lasting relationship could have brought? I mean, it's obvious it bothers you to be a victim of abandonment by your wife. Get on with your altered life, already.

We hear how much it bothers you all the time....

almost as retarded as your husband :second:
 

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I'm glad you asked because the context was a killer argument as to why a rapist gets more than just the fulfilment of a sexual urge. He gets to put someone's life in a tailspin.

Women's lives are changed. They stop going out, they stop seeking a mate and dreaming of being a wife with children, they stop wearing skirts and dresses (or start wearing cumbersome chastity belts for protection) they become emotionally reactive or easily startled.... and the changes can be permanent.

Why don't you just suck it up that your life was so drastically changed so you had two kids instead of half a dozen or whatever else a cool, long lasting relationship could have brought? I mean, it's obvious it bothers you to be a victim of abandonment by your wife. Get on with your altered life, already.

We hear how much it bothers you all the time...
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Great observation ...
 

ClimateSanity

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What's the issue of conscience if he believes he's not married in God's eyes? If he isn't married in God's eyes, he's free!



Then he's free! :duh:



That's called flirtation. When women do that, some morons accuse the women of defrauding them and think the women are setting themselves up to be raped.

I have no idea what his activities have been and haven't accused him of sinning in regards to his marriage.

Doser isn't defrauding the librarian with flirtation. He isn't offering something he refuses to give. If she asked for sex and he said no, you would have a point.

If you are not accusing him of sinning, then all of your questions are pointless with no direction. What you are talking about is about as relevant as tea in China if you are not trying to trap him.
 

ClimateSanity

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Doser. My answering questions put to you has been deemed inappropriate by the magistrates. If you wish that I would stop doing so, just tell me.
 

ok doser

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If you are not accusing him of sinning, then all of your questions are pointless with no direction.

this is why i entertain these questions when my creepy retarded stalkers bring them up - I have yet to hear them explain what my sin is by extending the waiting period before my divorce can be finalized


iirc, when she initially filed, NYS law required a one year waiting period - according to tambora, i should have ignored that because scripture demands that i file the paperwork with the county clerks office immediately

of course, tam has yet to show me that scripture :think:
 

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Tambora ... you must be referring to "dat mean old lynch mob!"

The victim-makers.
 

Tambora

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If the married man is not separated and if his wife actually gives a damn, then he is sinning. A man in the process of divorce to a wife who could care less about his activities with other women is doing nothing sinful at all in your scenario.

He pays attention to the civil court to avoid accusations and defame God in men's eyes. He might also be refraining from intercourse out of conscience toward God. He may feel it is wrong.
We could add a whole lot more "maybes" to the list.
 

1PeaceMaker

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not all of them

Kind of funny you say that when your whole point about so-called ordained consequences for being rape-able was to change women's future behavior, right?

- just the weak ones who think life should coddle them

:doh:

You know nothing about emotional trauma and how it can interfere with a person's life. You just see it as weakness to be mocked. Very callous indeed.

You also imagine no physical consequences. There are also long term physical consequences to rape, like infertility. That's no joke and it sounds really retarded to tell a woman to "suck it up" over the potential loss of her future as a wife, woman and mother when she doesn't know anything about her filthy rapist's health status or how it's affected her. How will her husband or potential husband handle it? Is she supposed to just "suck up" his reaction to her situation and physical condition with grace whenever it gets him down, too?

almost as retarded as your husband :second:

Dude, thanks. I really can tell I'm making an impact when you devolve into using that word instead of arguing anything.
 

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Victimhood, eh? Oh the irony ............................
Ain't it though!

Maybe he can come up with a few more excuses for Doser's behavior.
You have noticed he keeps trying to come up with excuses for the "victim" Doser, don't you?
But when it comes to other victims ----- blame blame blame!!!!!

When it's turned around on them, they whine "foul"!!!!!
 
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