I'm glad you asked because the context was a killer argument as to why a rapist gets more than just the fulfilment of a sexual urge. He gets to put someone's life in a tailspin.
Women's lives are changed. They stop going out, they stop seeking a mate and dreaming of being a wife with children, they stop wearing skirts and dresses (or start wearing cumbersome chastity belts for protection) they become emotionally reactive or easily startled.... and the changes can be permanent.
Why don't you just suck it up that your life was so drastically changed so you had two kids instead of half a dozen or whatever else a cool, long lasting relationship could have brought? I mean, it's obvious it bothers you to be a victim of abandonment by your wife. Get on with your altered life, already.
We hear how much it bothers you all the time....