I agree with Prodigal.
Why would you want to spend eternity with someone whose wrath you have avoided?
It's like spending eternity with an abusive partner who decides you he's not going to beat. As for everyone else...
And you are going to laugh, and say, "See! Told you so!"
And that's how it sounds. Like God sits and holds you over a flame like a spider, and says, "Do you love me, or do I drop you? Bwah-hah-hah!"
I don't want to spend eternity with that kind of being.
I don't want to spend eternity delighted in others burning in hell.
Why would anyone gloat about another's eternal damnation?
Why would anyone suggest that one is going to hell, when their life is still a work of progress?
Paul used to kill Christians, but that changed, so if you are gong to say, "Please be patient with me, God is not through with me yet", you have to give others a little slack.
I said, "Other" because I have found that you are saved from the responsibility of realizing that you are human, that you can do evil to another, that you are fallible, that you will die one day.
And instead, you believe you are going to live forever in perfect bodies, and can look down others, and say, "You're going to hell! Well, y'are!" You can feel free to call people names, and think there is no consequence for it, and back it up with a book where you twist the verses to justify it. You can wish death upon people, and think you are doing good. You do a bad thing, but it wasn't you, it was the devil.
You are "saved" from being a good human being, basically.
The rest of us are taking the harder road.
We spend time helping one another, listening to someone who is hurting, feeding someone who is living on fumes, being with someone who is lonely, doing good for no reason other than it makes us feel good, and makes the world a better place to live. We spend time edifying one another.
We learn, and tell ourselves that true knowledge comes from knowing you don't know everything.
And if many "christians" are going to heaven, yelling at each other, judging each other (YOU aren't a REAL christian) and taunting the people cast in the lake of fire,
and people like me our going to hell, hell is going to be wonderful.