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Tambora

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No. As I said before, responsibility for stupid choices =/= deserve. When you keep insisting I'm saying something that I've told you I do not believe, you are choosing to deliberately misrepresent me and are calling me a liar.
I've told no lie about you.
 

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How narrow must the behavior of a person be to guarantee not becoming a victim?
They spew out all these extreme scenarios.
But none of them will say where the line should be drawn when it comes to what the behavior of a woman should be in order to not be responsible or deserve to have their body raped by another.
None of them want to tackle that, because they know how stupid it will make their argument look.
 

bybee

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They spew out all these extreme scenarios.
But none of them will say where the line should be drawn when it comes to what the behavior of a woman should be in order to not be responsible or deserve to have their body raped by another.
None of them want to tackle that, because they know how stupid it will make their argument look.

Yup!
 

ClimateSanity

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Rape is a choice requiring a victim...any victim will do... a baby, a lady, a boy, a man... even a corpse on a slab.
The victim's behavior is a choice as well.
Choice of behavior is one of our freedoms. One does not choose to become a victim.
How narrow must the behavior of a person be to guarantee not becoming a victim?
Years ago one of my employees, a very nice young fellow, was on the "Sexual Predator" list because he chose to have consensual sex with his girl friend who was not yet 18 years of age.
When her parents found out about it they charged him with rape. He was convicted and spent time in jail.
Now, he made a choice. As a result he became a victim. Is he to blame for what happened to him?

Choice of behavior is a freedom. With freedom comes responsibility. Every choice we make has a consequence. There is no choice that would guarantee not being raped. There is no choice that would guarantee not having bad consequences. Over time, we gain wisdom and realize that a narrower set of choices brings about much less pain and misery. It is foolish behavior to learn the wise thing to do, and yet not do it. It is childish to continue to do that behavior and then cry foul when bad things happen. It is the mindset of a little god to demand they can do whatever they please with no bad consequence whatsoever. This does not mean they deserve what they get. It means they are not realizing that this is a sinful world, and you must behave wisely to reduce your risk of pain. Your employee should have been aware of statutory rape. Its all over the news and there were special programs like to catch a predator that dealt with it. He must have been living in a cave to be unaware of it all.
 

musterion

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But none of them will say where the line should be drawn when it comes to what the behavior of a woman should be in order to not be responsible or deserve to have their body raped by another.

Another misrepresentation.

I've been saying from the start that this isn't limited to only women or to rape. If anyone puts themselves into a situation they should know has a probable degree of danger that should be avoided but goes ahead anyway, they're knowingly taking that risk. That's called personal responsibility, not "deserve." That's all I've said this whole time. Even Bybee sort of acknowledged it last week. Besides, that position is simple biblical truth.
The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty. Prov 27:12

Go ahead and argue with it.
 

bybee

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Choice of behavior is a freedom. With freedom comes responsibility. Every choice we make has a consequence. There is no choice that would guarantee not being raped. There is no choice that would guarantee not having bad consequences. Over time, we gain wisdom and realize that a narrower set of choices brings about much less pain and misery. It is foolish behavior to learn the wise thing to do, and yet not do it. It is childish to continue to do that behavior and then cry foul when bad things happen. It is the mindset of a little god to demand they can do whatever they please with no bad consequence whatsoever. This does not mean they deserve what they get. It means they are not realizing that this is a sinful world, and you must behave wisely to reduce your risk of pain. Your employee should have been aware of statutory rape. Its all over the news and there were special programs like to catch a predator that dealt with it. He must have been living in a cave to be unaware of it all.

He was a teenager. He had sex with his steady girl friend. She agreed. It was not forced. This would not have been a case for the law in my day. It would have meant that they were to be married.
Now, A young fellow is branded for life.
If we all were without sin we could cast stones. The law has become rediculously punitive.
 

glorydaz

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Choice of behavior is a freedom. With freedom comes responsibility. Every choice we make has a consequence. There is no choice that would guarantee not being raped. There is no choice that would guarantee not having bad consequences. Over time, we gain wisdom and realize that a narrower set of choices brings about much less pain and misery. It is foolish behavior to learn the wise thing to do, and yet not do it. It is childish to continue to do that behavior and then cry foul when bad things happen. It is the mindset of a little god to demand they can do whatever they please with no bad consequence whatsoever. This does not mean they deserve what they get. It means they are not realizing that this is a sinful world, and you must behave wisely to reduce your risk of pain. Your employee should have been aware of statutory rape. Its all over the news and there were special programs like to catch a predator that dealt with it. He must have been living in a cave to be unaware of it all.

Humanism.

And too much common sense....does not compute. :chuckle:
 

glorydaz

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Another misrepresentation.

I've been saying from the start that this isn't limited to only women or to rape. If anyone puts themselves into a situation they should know has a probable degree of danger that should be avoided but goes ahead anyway, they're knowingly taking that risk. That's called personal responsibility, not "deserve." That's all I've said this whole time. Even Bybee sort of acknowledged it last week. Besides, that position is simple biblical truth.


Go ahead and argue with it.

Sort of acknowledging it is simply a slip up....an oopsie. :)

Back in the old days, before women's lib came to the fore, we knew quite well what you're saying. We told our kids not to do something, and when they did it, we had no problem saying, "Well, you asked for it....when you did what you were told not to do. Well, you deserved it because you did what you were told not to do." But now the PC TYRANTS have entered the fray. We must play by their rules and claim people do NOT deserve any consequences for their actions. They are ALL innocent victims. As soon as someone becomes a victim, they are declared INNOCENT no matter what they were doing before they became a victim. Calling evil good and good evil is a sign we are in the last days. And woe be unto those who dare to call stripping and dirty dancing bad behavior. And woe be unto those who dare to say they suffer CONSEQUENCES for that bad behavior. And woe be unto those who dare to say man does NOT get to decide what those consequences will be. Bad behavior is risky behavior. Which is basic common sense that the pc police refuse to recognize. :nono:

Now you're being raped by the PC Tyrants, Musty. Aren't you glad you dared to speak up? ;)
 

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Scantly clad women fueled with alcohol, can lead to rapes

Regret is not rape.
The line pretty much ends there- you make a wrong decision while intoxicated, then that's your own fault.

These are the same women who would break up with their boyfriend or consider divorcing their husband if they got drunk and cheated on them. It's funny how one-sided the whole thing is. But, it is 'feminism' after all, not 'egalitarianism'.
 

ClimateSanity

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He was a teenager. He had sex with his steady girl friend. She agreed. It was not forced. This would not have been a case for the law in my day. It would have meant that they were to be married.
Now, A young fellow is branded for life.
If we all were without sin we could cast stones. The law has become rediculously punitive.

I actually agree with your last statement. Some of your PC friends are in full agreement with the punitive statute.
 

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There is no choice that would guarantee not being raped.
Not from the victim, no.
But there is a choice that would guarantee not being raped, but that choice comes from the rapist only.
When it comes to rape, the only one guilty or responsible is the rapist.
It makes no difference if the woman was drunk, half naked, and stripping, or was at home in her own bed wearing curlers, face cream, and flannel pjs.

The only reason a rape occurs in any situation is because the rapist made a choice to rape.
The guilt is his alone.
The responsibility is his alone.
The blame is his alone.


It is the mindset of a little god to demand they can do whatever they please with no bad consequence whatsoever.
I haven't seen a sole say such a thing.
 

Tambora

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Another misrepresentation.
You want me to believe that you posted those scenarios to show that a woman never deserves to have her body raped?
Is that why you posted them?
I think not.
I think you were looking for another response other than: a woman never deserves to have her body raped.
 

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Not from the victim, no.
But there is a choice that would guarantee not being raped, but that choice comes from the rapist only.
When it comes to rape, the only one guilty or responsible is the rapist.
It makes no difference if the woman was drunk, half naked, and stripping, or was at home in her own bed wearing curlers, face cream, and flannel pjs.

The only reason a rape occurs in any situation is because the rapist made a choice to rape.
The guilt is his alone.
The responsibility is his alone.
The blame is his alone.


I haven't seen a sole say such a thing.

Pretty simple concept ... unless one desires to make excuses for the rapist ...
 
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