Fault? No, not necessarily. The definition used in the original discussion was "earned by ones actions" and yes people can earn negative consequences to their actions, it doesn't mean they are justified, or that the perpetrator is less guilty of what THEY did, just that in some cases a victim can place themselves in harms way or act in such a manner that they themselves increase the likelihood of being a victim.
I wonder how many liberals for example would defend a black man saying it was understandable, if he shot someone who called him the n word and egged him on?
Was the perp justified in what they did? No.
However did the victim increase the likelihood of getting harmed because of what he did? Yep. (earned by actions)
We can earn both good and bad things for our own actions in many cases, and it doesnt mean, what happened was justified.
That keeps getting missed.