alwight
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What would be fair imo or at least more desirable is that a child is born to loving parents who want it.Fair by what standard? Fair by the standard that BOTH get to go on with their lives? There is only one option where both do not get to go on with their lives: THAT option is abortion.
I don't want to see abortion used as a form of family planning. But in principal at least, as far as early pregnancy goes, I don't really see a whole lot of difference.
I disagree that I am advocating the killing of the unborn I'm merely after whatever is the best in any given situation, we may have different opinions on what that is.There can only be quality of life IF the unborn are allowed to live. How does killing off the unborn make their life better?
I disagree that life at any cost is necessarily conducive to a better quality of life.
I don't think how I feel as an outsider matters very much, its about how she feels and what might help her get over rape.I guess it would depend on you and those you are surrounded by. How do *you* feel about a woman who has been victimized by rape and the child who was produced from that rape?
These may be factors in a given situation to consider but I don't think restricting the possible options by dogmatic objection to abortion is particularly helpful.I am pretty sure that most people here would feel the same way I do ... that the mother was a victim and the baby is innocent and precious. The mode of conception does not change how valuable a person is.
I would also question why a parent and those close to a parent are unable to let the child know they are loved. Children who are raised to value themselves and others should never feel badly about themselves.
Again this isn't about how I feel, that's not important. However I don't think I know anyone who would say this and I don't want to know anyone who would.I guess it would depend on the woman and how she values and deals with such trying situations in her life. Would you feel bad about such a woman? If someone degraded your wife/sister/mother/daughter or a close friend for being rape victim, how would you respond.
This is again beside the point, it's about how she feels about the child, other people can go to blazes afaic.As for me, I certainly wouldn't say "hey, he's right! You are scum and so is the child you produced." How would you respond?
An infinate number of possible humans are not allowed to exist.Which is impossible for a child who is not ALLOWED to exist. :think: