If you were addressing me there; not to worry: I often log in and out here and there - depends on what's on my plate on any given day, and how much time I see I might have for reading and or posting.
Besides, we each have the truth of Roman 5's "tribulation worketh patience" as an operative principle, general guideline, or rule of thumb (of the many found throughout Romans) that we can each turn to for our "peace" if we are so inclined to do so.
Thus, whether you offended, or not, perceived or not, the Lord can be the issue, or core focus, in all things.
Just a matter of each our decision to let Him be the issue, or our core focus, in any moment in life.
And that, is not a bad opportunity to seize on as our core focus, any time of the day...or night.
This here from Romans 5 - it's a pretty good deal as a core focus.
Romans 5:1 Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ: 5:2 By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. 5:3 And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; 5:4 And patience, experience; and experience, hope: 5:5 And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us. 5:6 For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. 5:7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. 5:9 Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. 5:10 For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. 5:11 And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Rom. 5:8
Prov. 27:17
Acts 17:11,12.