Ah, we would gladly obey, you say.
Would you not gladly obey the commandment to Love God and Love thy Neighbor, even to Love one Another? No more dancing, just yes or no, please. It's a simple question.
Paul says concerning the law.
Romans 7:18-19 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not. For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.
You are mixing up laws, thus the confusion:
Romans 7:1 "for I speak to them that know the law" is the Law of Moses, as we read in the Old Testament.
Romans 7:4 "ye are also become dead to the law by the body of Christ" is still speaking to that same Law of Moses.
Romans 7:5-6 ... continues with the same meaning of law... "but now we are delivered from the law"
But what does it say then? "
that we should serve in newness of spirit, and not in the oldness of letter."
Romans 7:14-15 KJV
(14)
For we know that the law is spiritual: but I am carnal, sold under sin.
(15) For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I.
Paul is explaining that there is a spiritual aspect to the law, not merely by the letter. And he goes on to describe a different type of law that is served in spirit, not in the flesh. One law is unto death and another law unto life.
Paul is not allergic to the topic of law.
Romans 7:14 KJV
(14)
For we know that the law is spiritual: but I am carnal, sold under sin.
Romans 7:22-25 KJV
(22)
For I delight in the law of God after the inward man:
(23) But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.
(24) O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?
(25)
I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord. So then with the mind I myself serve the law of God; but with the flesh the law of sin.
I'm just wondering how you think such a thing can be accomplished by obeying the Law. I'm not sure what verse you're talking about where we "become love", but please don't it distract you from the subject at hand.
How can perfect love be accomplished by obeying the law? Paul has an answer for that in Romans. It's a perfect answer as it directly addresses your question.
Romans 13:8-10 KJV
(8) Owe no man any thing,
but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.
(9) For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, Thou shalt not covet; and if there be any other commandment,
it is briefly comprehended in this saying, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
(10) Love worketh no ill to his neighbour:
therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
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Love is the fulfillment of the law" and this is the reason why Jesus said "
Thou hast answered right: this do, and thou shalt live." (Luke 10:28) The seeming contradiction appears in Luke as the certain lawyer did not have an honest intent to love God and love his neighbor, as shown by his attempt to justify himself by limiting the definition of neighbor. The fulfillment of the law is in Spirit, not in flesh.
The Law of Commandments. We're talking about Matt. 5, right?
The Law of Commandments (the Law of Moses) was a schoolmaster to bring us to Christ.
Galatians 3:24-25 KJV
(24)
Wherefore the law was our schoolmaster to bring us unto Christ, that we might be justified by faith.
(25) But after that faith is come, we are no longer under a schoolmaster.
And in the biblical context,
the fulfillment of that law is love (
Romans 13:10) and
Jesus did not come to destroy the law,
but to fulfill. (
Matthew 5:17).
So, I'll ask again. Can love be commanded. How does that work?
Yes, Love can be commanded. If you think it cannot you need to ask Jesus why he commanded Love. See Mark 12:30-31, John 13:34, John 15:12, Romans 13:9, 1 John 3:23, 1 John 4:21, and 2 John 1:5-6.
John 15:12-14 KJV
(12)
This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.
(13) Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
(14)
Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.
Hopefully we are no longer arguing about whether love can be commanded. If John and Paul are not sufficient, Jesus should be an ultimate authority on this question. Your question is now left at "how does this work' and hopefully not "IF" it is commanded or "IF" it works?
And to this I have already answered. It is a spiritual commandment, and it must be answered in faith, in spirit and truth. If Jesus commanded you to walk on water, would you walk on water? How does it work? Jesus and this father of the child answered this question as well:
Mark 9:23-24 KJV
(23) Jesus said unto him,
If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth.
(24) And straightway the father of the child cried out, and said with tears,
Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief.
Ah, so it can't be accomplished through man's efforts. Which is the point. Man can want to be perfect. He can try hard to obey. He can try hard to love. So, the Law can never make men righteous, it can never justify anyone, and it can never give life. Yet Jesus preached it, didn't He? He preached it so man would see his own guilt and his inability to keep the law perfectly. His inability to love his enemies perfectly.
But it cannot be accomplished without man's effort either, unless you wish to entertain the Calvinist idea that "love" and "faith" and "belief" are gifts which are forced upon unwilling man. It is accomplished by surrender to Christ through the Holy Spirit.
First, man doesn't want to be perfect, certainly not in the sense that Jesus said of "Be ye therefore perfect." Man has a desire towards imperfection, and loving his enemies is something that goes against his very nature.
Second, Jesus did not preach "the Law" -- he didn't deny the law, he didn't tell people to disobey the law or break the commandments, but that was not the subject of his preaching. Jesus did preach the Law of Love (which James calls "The Royal Law" ) and He also spoke of faith and belief and repentance and forgiveness of sins. To the extent that you say that the law convicts us of sin, I suppose you could say that no preaching can be devoid of law (of some sort) but that wasn't his focus.
So, my question to you is why you keep speaking of the schoolmaster to those who are already IN CHRIST.
If you had fully learned from that schoolmaster, you would not be protesting against the commandments of Christ.
The Law of Moses is the schoolmaster,
the fulfillment of the law is love and are the commandments of our Christ.
And Jesus the fulfillment of that Law says, If we are his friends, we shall do his commandments, that we should love our neighbor as ourselves, love one another as He loved us, and even that we should love our enemies.
His commandments are not grievous.
1 John 5:2-3 KJV
(2) By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God, and keep his commandments.
(3) For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.
Among Christians, why should the commandment to LOVE be so controversial as if it were something grievous?