I think this verse worries me most about the Luke 16 parable...
Luk 16:25
But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented.
This would put most tele-evangelists, most of the Western world, all the rich folks in a condemned state.
This is just not what causes us to lose eternal life. And being a poor beggar does not gain us eternal life either.
Thus we go back to what I always say about parables - they make one point only. The point here is that MANY of the first now (the rich and famous, world rulers) will be last, and many of the despised now, viz. God's believers, will be first.
Apart from that, the scenario in hell is not far from how I believe it will play out after the Millennium.
The condemned, mortal humans will be resurrected, judged, and condemned. Then they will wait for the lake of fire to burn them up, thus providing closure and justice. It will be nearly instant death. This is what is called the "second death". The rich man in this parable has been resurrected, judged, condemned, and awaits the approaching fire which will destroy him.
Once earth is cauterised, New Jerusalem will descend as the bride of Christ, on the now purified world.
I know you don't see it this way. I am interested why you do not see the incorrigibly wicked being resurrected, judged, and burnt UP so that their smoke rises forever.