glassjester
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I said *compelling* reason ....
That's a compelling reason for those in arranged marriages.
Long term, they are happy and as much in love with one another as those in successful, non-arranged marriages.
I said *compelling* reason ....
I enjoyed it.
It makes me think of both Debussy and Harry Lubin. Weird combination!
Take my opinion with as many grains of salt as you wish. I am highly uncultured!
I don't see why enjoying Ligeti would preclude enjoyment of Beyonce.
That's a compelling reason for those in arranged marriages.
Long term, they are happy and as much in love with one another as those in successful, non-arranged marriages.
Data | |
Annual number of arranged marriages worldwide | 26,250,000 |
Percent of marriages in the world that are arranged | 53.25 % |
Global divorce rate for arranged marriages | 6.3 % |
Average number of years older the male is from the female in an arrange marriage | 4.5 years |
India Arranged Marriage Statistics | Data |
Percent of marriages in India that are arranged | 88.4 % |
India divorce rate | 1.2 % |
Forced Marriage Statistics | Data |
Number of girls globally who are forced to marry before the age of 18 | 11,250,000 |
Percent of girls in developing countries who are forced to marry before the age of 15 | 11 % |
Percent of girls who were forced to marry before a certain age | Percent |
South Asia - before age 18 | 46.4 % |
Bangladesh - before age 15 | 27.3 % |
Africa - before age 18 | 42 % |
Niger - before age 15 | 26 % |
Kyrgyzstan - before age 18 | 21.2 % |
Kazakhstan - before age 18 | 14.4 % |
You don't have to find it interesting.
Just entertaining.
You can do it.
I believe in you.
I doubt there is simple gene for homosexuality. My guess is that there are epigenetic factors in interaction with the pre-natal environment like MrDante already said. There is research that suggests that it is more common in men with older brothers. I have no idea if this is true in other animals as well. If it is, it might be a mechanism (not in the sense of all youngest males are homosexuals, but statistically) that has been preserved due to an evolutionary advantage. But that is fairly speculative. The fact that it is so prevalent in the animal kingdom suggests that populations that have a certain % of homosexual individuals are selected for.
The original post was meant to demolish the ridiculous arguments against homosexuality based on the teleology of sex. That argument is nonsense, because if it exists in so many species, it suggests a function and thus is aids the reproductivity of a population.
Here it comes .....
What do we say when child molesters say it is their natural orientation and that they cannot change their natural inclinations?
I mean, SOMETHING is causing them to desire little kids, but have no desire for adults.
jgarden said:Homosexuality selected because of societal function
To my knowledge, nobody makes a conscious choice as to their sexual orientation!
You did so with question-begging nonsense. And you do think homos are just OK, so her point stands.What I did was to demolish the arguments that says that homosexuality is unnatural and serves no purpose, as in being damaging to the perpetuation of the species.
If you're not having homo sex, you're not committing a crime. :duh:Yet for somehow some of these people celebrate celibacy as a virtue.
See?I fail to see any actual reason to deem it immoral.
God said it's a real big no-no.What is the problem with it?
Sure, it can. Both are crimes.Pedophilia is the abuse of a minor. There is no consent involved and it is destroying the life of those children, this can't be compared with homosexuality.
Here it comes .....
What do we say when child molesters say it is their natural orientation and that they cannot change their natural inclinations?
I mean, SOMETHING is causing them to desire little kids, but have no desire for adults.
What is the ratio of gays vs gay marriage right now?
It's a sad, sad number.
All that fighting for nothing- and they have the gull to act like it wasn't simply a war against Christianity.
At least be a man
And admit your reason_
I am not saying that you are talking about it being moral or not.As I told glassjester: Please point out where I have claimed that something is moral because it is natural.
I never claimed such a thing. What I did was to demolish the arguments that says that homosexuality is unnatural and serves no purpose, as in being damaging to the perpetuation of the species (yet for somehow some of these people celebrate celibacy as a virtue).
It does not follow from that that homosexuality is necessarily moral. However, I fail to see any actual reason to deem it immoral. What is the problem with it?
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Well that would be a moral opinion, would it not?Pedophilia is the abuse of a minor. There is no consent involved and it is destroying the life of those children, this can't be compared with homosexuality.
I doubt there is simple gene for homosexuality. My guess is that there are epigenetic factors in interaction with the pre-natal environment like MrDante already said. There is research that suggests that it is more common in men with older brothers. I have no idea if this is true in other animals as well. If it is, it might be a mechanism (not in the sense of all youngest males are homosexuals, but statistically) that has been preserved due to an evolutionary advantage. But that is fairly speculative. The fact that it is so prevalent in the animal kingdom suggests that populations that have a certain % of homosexual individuals are selected for.
Well no, I knew I saw the opposite sex differently to my own gender as young as five. I didn't understand why completely but now as an adult I can tell I was simply wired as heterosexual. That isn't a preference and homosexual attraction for me is not only completely out of the window but I would posit for anyone else who would identify as heterosexual themselves. Where it comes to music I was born with perfect pitch, obviously not a choice in itself but I was drawn to music that was more 'off the beaten track' as a kid and I didn't then nor 'choose' now to love the music I do. What you seem to be arguing is that people can alter their attractions over a course of time which is a very weak argument. I'm never going to be interested in listening to a 'Take That' boy band album as I find pop music to be insidiously bland and dull for the most part. In much the same way I wouldn't ever buy a poster of such a boy band as I happen to be straight and that ain't gonna change whether I live to 107...
If we are going to dismiss morals for this conversation, and only ponder about if it is "natural" or not, then the same standard should be for both homos and pedos.
I mean, if we consider that a homo cannot choose to change, then the same consideration should be given to the pedo.
Tambora said:I am not saying that you are talking about it being moral or not.
But if there is something inherently natural that controls your orientation or inclinations, then it can be true for pedos as well.
Well that would be a moral opinion, would it not?
If we are going to dismiss morals for this conversation, and only ponder about if it is "natural" or not, then the same standard should be for both homos and pedos.
I mean, if we consider that a homo cannot choose to change, then the same consideration should be given to the pedo.
And I have yet to see a good moral argument in support of a man poking his pee-pee in another man's feces chute.(Sorry, but there is just no way to say it without being a tad graphic.)I have yet to see a good moral argument against homosexuality apart from "it says so in the Bible", which is really more of an observation than an argument.
Well, he seems to like it. :idunno:And I have yet to see a good moral argument in support of a man poking his pee-pee in another man's feces chute.(Sorry, but there is just no way to say it without being a tad graphic.)
Whether moral or immoral, natural or unnatural, it's just downright filthy.
And it (homo butt poking) is useless when considering the survival continuation of the species.
Other than a perverted and filthy way of self gratification, what use is it for the species?
That seems to be the only argument for it.Well, he seems to like it. :idunno: