PS
The lopsided view which continually highlights love and mercy leaves no room for justice and judgement. This view is passed on to the children of reformed parents and causes a major crash when judgement falls on them or their friends. The equation goes like this:
Disaster occurs + Elohim is love x He is Almighty + Why did He "allow this" x If He existed He would never have allowed this to happen to: little babies, orphans, my best friend, my sister, my brother or my best friends family.
The = in this equation has only one conclusion. Elohim does not exist because if He did...
"Justice and judgment are the habitation of thy throne: mercy and truth shall go before thy face".