He can't love them personally of they reject him, because they won't accept him. But he still loves them.
Wouldn't you go to the ends of the earth for your children, even if they did wrong?
If God so loved the world, then God loves us all. And if we are to love our enemies them so did Jesus, and he did!
God came to save all, but not all will be saved.
But I don't want to argue about it with you. That's what I believe anyway
You keep saying that to me, but then you are arguing---but that is okay and right to do.
We are to debate, even in public debate. We are to argue, vigorously refute, sharply dispute, persuade, oppose, defend, confirm, command, preach, teach, instruct, rebuke, encourage, and contend.
Here are some reasons, from the bible, to support debating.
Acts 4:20 For we cannot help speaking about what we have seen and heard.
Acts 9:29 He
talked and debated with the Grecian Jews, but they tried to kill him.
Acts 15:1 Some men came down from Judea to Antioch and were teaching the brothers: "Unless you are circumcised, according to the custom taught by Moses, you cannot be saved." This brought
Paul and Barnabas into sharp dispute and debate with them. So Paul and Barnabas were appointed, along with some other believers, to go up to Jerusalem to see the apostles and elders about this question.
Acts 18:28
For he
vigorously refuted the Jews
in public debate, proving from the Scriptures that Jesus was the Christ.
Acts 19:8-9 Paul entered the synagogue and
spoke boldly there for three months,
arguing persuasively about the kingdom of God. But some of them became obstinate: they refused to believe and publicly maligned the Way. So Paul left them.
2 Corinthians 3:11 Since, then, we know what it is to fear the Lord, we try to
persuade men. What we are is plain to God, and I hope that it is plain to your conscience.
Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ. Galatians 1:10
Paul opposes Peter. See Galatians 2:11-21
Galatians 4:16 Have I now become your enemy by telling you the truth?
1 Timothy 1:3-4 As I urged you when I went into Macedonia, stay there in Ephesus so that you may
command certain men not to teach false doctrines any longer nor to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies. These promote controversies rather than God's work—which is by faith.
1 Timothy 4:6 If you point these things out to the brothers, you will be a good minister of Christ Jesus, brought up in the truths of the faith and of the good teaching that you have followed.
2 Timothy 2:25-26
Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.
2 Timothy 4:2-4 Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season;
correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction. For the time will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths.
Titus 1:9 He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and
refute those who oppose it.
Titus 1:13 This saying is true. Therefore
rebuke them sharply, so that they will be sound in the faith
Jude 3 Dear friends, although I was very eager to write to you about the salvation we share, I felt I had to write and urge you to
contend for the faith that was once for all entrusted to the saints.