That is only about Pharaoh and faithless Jews.
God doesn't go around hardening people so that they don't believe in Him.
In fact, just the fact that God had need to harden people proves that Calvinism is false, for Calvinists claim no one can can believe in Him unless He causes them to supernaturally. So why would God need to harden someone if they couldn't believe anyway until He made them believe?
Hmmm…well, the hardening that came upon Pharaoh relates to his refusal to let the Israelites free, not whether he is able to believe in Christ. But when it comes to humanity in general, maybe Paul is saying that hardening refers how they were created and predestined by God, who searches hearts and knows everything about them and their future. Also, maybe hardening, at least sometimes, is about God withdrawing his grace or self from a person rather than making them do something. God hates sin, so I don’t think He becomes involved in evil, thought he did create everything that became evil.
I suppose I can see the viewpoint that the one crying out in
Romans 9:19 Then why does God still blame us? is perhaps someone born into and caught up in their national and cultural identity to the point that they refuse faith, and so the hardening is more about groups than individuals. Maybe the “it” in
9:16 It does not depend on man’s desire or mercy refers more to geographic and national situations of people than their life choices. But I also think I might be jumping through a hoops a bit with that line of thinking.
9:11 Yet before the twins were born or had done anything good or bad in order that God’s purpose in election might stand … it is natural to connect election here with the elect, used throughout the new testament to refer to believers in Christ.
9:23-24: What if he did this to make his glory known to the objects of his mercy, whom he prepared in advance for glory—even us, whom he also called, not only from the Jews but also from the Gentiles? The simplest and perhaps most gracious interpretation is that this type of predestination towards wrath or mercy applies to all people, though I guess it doesn’t strictly say that here. At any rate, Paul intends for this message to be relevant to believers and nonbelievers after Christ’s resurrection.
Those same Jews that God hardened and helped in Jesus getting crucified, after they repented they were saved.
Yes, in the quote you gave from Acts it says three thousand were saved in a day. Like Paul, I wish for as many of them as possible to be called and predestined and justified and persevere and be glorified.
If you believe Calvinism is truth, then you are not near God's Truth. Let's talk about the scriptures that Calvinists use and I'll show you what the truth is.
Which type of Calvinism? How do you define it? For me…and I might not have explained myself very well…it’s not about Calvinism or any -ism, but about how good one thinks humans are. And about how much glory and credit one gives God. And where goodness comes from. It comes from God, right? Pagans love their families, as Jesus said. But goodness comes from God. So any work or act, including believing and obeying, is from God. Romans 3:9-20 says no human is righteous without Christ (I’m sure we agree on that). In terms of believing and doing good, a person’s will and desire is very limited…
Phillipians 2:21 For everyone looks out for his own interests, not those of Jesus Christ.
…but not so God’s grace and power and love.
John 5:21 Jesus says “
the Son gives life to whom he is pleased to give it.” (Yes, he does go on to say that those who do good will received life and those who do evil will be condemned, and this is true.)
Philippians:
1:6 being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion on the day of Christ Jesus.
1:29 For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe on him, but also to suffer for him
2:12-13 continue to work out your salvation in fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose.
1 Corinthians:
1:2 called to be holy
1:8 He will keep you strong to the end, so that you will be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.
3:7 So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow.
15:10 But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me was not without effect. No I worked harder than all of them—yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me.
15:57 But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ!
2 Corinthians:
1:9 not rely on ourselves but on God
1:21-22 Now it is God who makes both us and you stand firm in Christ. He anointed us, set his seal of ownership on us, and put his Spirit in our hearts as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come.
1:24 it is by faith you stand firm
2:14 But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumphal procession in Christ and through us spreads everywhere the fragrance of the knowledge of him.
3:5 Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God.
3:18 And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.
2 Timothy:
1: 8-10 But join me in suffering for the gospel, by the power of God, who has saved us and called us to a holy life—not because of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. This grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time, but it has now been revealed through the appearing of our Savior, Christ Jesus, who has destroyed death and has brought life and immortality to light through the gospel.
1: 12 I know whom I have believed, and am convinced that he is able to guard what I have entrusted to him for that day.
Ephesians:
1:4-6 For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons, in accordance with his pleasure and will—to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the one he loves.
2:3-9 All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our sinful nature and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature objects of wrath. But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not of yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.
1 Thessalonians:
1:4-5 For we know, brothers loved by God, that he has chosen you, because our Gospel came to you not simply with words, but with power, and the Holy Spirit and deep conviction.
3:12 May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else
3:13 May he strengthen your hearts so that you will be blameless and holy in the presence of our God and Father when our Lord Jesus comes with all his holy ones.
5: 23-24 May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of your Lord Jesus Christ. The one who calls you is faithful and he will do it.
2 Thessalonians:
2:10 They perish because they refuse to love the truth and be saved. For this reason God sends them a powerful delusion so that they will believe the lie and so that all will be condemned who have not believed the truth but have delighted in wickedness.
2:13-14 because from the beginning God chose you to be saved through the sanctifying work of the Spirit and through belief in the truth. He called you to this through our Gospel
3:5 May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance.
I am wary of notions of human autonomy and so must test everything. Most modern people live in a culture of individualism, but actually Christ is the Believer's life.
Colossians 3:4 When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you will also appear with him in glory.
However…
2 Corinthians 6:1 As God’s fellow workers we urge you not to receive God’s grace in vain.
Looking at this verse, I suppose grace is not given only to the saved… If God’s grace, meaning not saving grace but a form of God’s influence, is required for anyone to do anything good, than all receive some grace…but perhaps they are never justified or truly reconciled to God in Christ.
Another verse that may not seem to fit with a deterministic view (and, yes, there are many more):
Colossians 1:22-23 But now he has reconciled you by Christ’s physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation—if you continue in your faith, established and firm, not moved from the hope held out in the Gospel.
But, you could say that
he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand (Romans 14:4).
The Bible says God wants the unbelieving sinners to come to Him to get saved.
Yes. Those that do, do so because they are chosen or called. It’s a bit of a mystery how it all fits together. Scripture uses both kinds of language…that about people turning to God and that about God working such acts in people. Some find it a bit of a mystery why sin should exist, why many should be denied eternal life, and why many should suffer in this life. God hates evil and wants goodness in people, but through the existence of suffering and evil in people he is also creating a people for himself who love him and are obedient to him.
It isn't really about which translation a person uses You were taught wrong things about the scriptures by Calvinists. After Jesus saved me, I would read many different writings and not even know what the author's denomination was. After awhile I had more knowledge and can spot the false teachings and from which denomination.
I hope you will be encouraged and that God will further enrich you. I am also eager to learn how you view these Scriptures and to what degree you have the truth. Some of our disagreement is just a difference of emphasis or inclusion/exclusion.