It's real easy to excuse ourselves of all responsibility for the damage we do to others. And in an ideal way, I suppose it's true that if others were impervious to our insults, and our selfishness, we could do them no harm.
But who is that impervious? No one that I know of.
So this parade of self-excusing that I've seen going on on this thread doesn't entirely wash with me. Because we all know that no one is that impervious to us. And so we ARE responsible to some degree for the damage we do to another's psyche with our own anger, resentment, selfishness, and stupidity. We are not entirely responsible, but we are still somewhat responsible.
Because we know better. And because we could have been better to others as a result of our knowing better.
it is true
we are responsible for what comes out of our mouth
and
it is only our salvation that depends on what we do