'Monster' is when truth doesn't matter any longer, AB. Reread: I didn't call her a monster. It was a pleading statement. Wake up. I love allegiance, but not when it becomes excusing behavior from either you or Rusha, to a fault. At that point, such allegiance is 'monstrous' for sticking up for what is wrong instead of standing for what is right. Any time we hold up an abuse, especially from a friend we should be correcting, then yes, it is indeed monstrous because it exacerbates the ill two or three-fold monstrously (as is the potential for such in this thread) If my friendships don't last because I speak the truth, that is their bad, not mine. I'll not trade truth for something feigned. I'd rather actually be the definition of friend regarding their good, what is true, and what is right, than worry about being defriended or hated. That is a sad day, but not my problem. I constantly show myself as a friend even if one doesn't think it friendly. I'm doing the same here with you and Rusha whether you particularly like such kind of friendship. Truth is important to me. One will have to want it when being my friend.
Suggestion: Learn to do the same. Don't stick up for bad behavior. Reread the thread and things she PURPOSEFULLY misquotes for her own fragile ego. READ it!
No. She lied. You cannot trust someone who lies, even if it isn't to you! Wake up. I have NO very good friends who make a habit of misquotes and lies. I DIDN'T realize Anna did this, this frequently nor to me, until this thread. Sorry, Fact. Learn to be wise rather than ardent upon a fault. You CAN say she is your friend despite being untrustworthy with quotes, but that's a 'truthful' story rather than siding with an ill. That, I'll call into question and rightfully so. You are simply wrong, despite love and allegiance.
Being a friend to a fault isn't pathetic, but it isn't praiseworthy either. It is simply siding with someone when they are wrong. You can keep your 'pathetic' and reread the thread. You are wrong. Simple as that. READ it! You'll know you have been wrong. I don't care if she is 'honest' with you. Such isn't a character trait, it is situational ethics. She purposefully misquoted me. Friends don't do that (nor honest people). Guess again Arthur. If we have had anything between you and I, it is AT LEAST honesty to this point. -Lon