So you refuse to understand figures of speech and insist that women need not be born again. Got it.
So you say that when the Lord Jesus spoke of "a man" being "born again" he was actually referring to the "nation of Israel" being born again. What about Peter's words here:
"Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God...And this is the word which by the gospel is preached unto you" (1 Pet.1:23,25).
The Greek word translated "being born again" is in the "present" tense so are you arguing that at the time when Peter wrote those words the nation of Israel had been regenerated?
I say that Peter was referring to "individuals" being born again by believing the gospel.
Do you still want to argue that "individuals" were not being "born again" but only the "nation of Israel"?
Can you not understand that "individual" Jews who lived under the law were being made alive spiritually when they "believed" the words of the Lord Jesus which brought spiritual life even though He told them the following:
"It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life" (Jn.6:63).
If you cannot understand His words there perhaps you can understand His words here which He spoke to the Jews who lived under the law:
"Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me hath everlasting life" (Jn.6:47).
If those words are also above your understanding perhaps you can understand His following words which were also written to the Jews who lived under the law:
"And this is the will of him that sent me, that every one which seeth the Son, and believeth on him, may have everlasting life: and I will raise him up at the last day" (Jn.6:40).
If you cannot understand what He said there perhaps you can understand what is written here:
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life" (Jn.3:16).
If you still cannot understand that "believing" was the only requirement for the Jews who lived under the law in order to be "born again" then I can only conclude that you unable to understand spiritual things.