glorydaz
Well-known member
it's called dissociative identity disorder
Is that what they call hypocrites nowadays?
it's called dissociative identity disorder
it's not really ignore if you have to make sure the other guy knows you're ignoring him :doh:
moron
it's not really ignore if you have to make sure the other guy knows you're ignoring him :doh:
moron
:darwinsm: and it's really not ignore when you pretend you have someone on ignore and then report posts they make :darwinsm:
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maroon
Oops......Caught with his pants down, eh?
You are making it sound like that is the only card in play, but this is a big poker game. Education regarding rape is important. The legal system being relentless in persecuting rapists is also important. Self control and respect is the most important of all.
Yuppers!
lain: The sad thing, and in my eyes the most offensive, is that such a mindset guarantees that rapes will go on because as long as a woman is relying on what another should/should not do, then she is not concentrating on keeping herself safe.
I am so stunned by the reaction of outrage by men on this forum.
As though a woman's thoughts about rape are an immediate accusation thrown at all men? This was certainly not my intent.
I guess the good old boy network defends its own.
I'm not stunned, they get the bigger point, i am stunned that so many of the women here cannot. (or rather pretend they cannot get it).
I am embarrassed actually that so many other women aren't capable of admitting that sometimes, that sure do reap nasty things because of their own foolish behavior.
Example - a drunk man is a rapist, because a drunk woman cannot consent because she is drunk (even though she said yes).
Thats completely idiotic one sided thinking. If the drink is the real issue, then he didnt know he "raped" her because he was too drunk to make that decision, see how that works?
It's been all about you since you started here, knob.
It always is ... whether he is posting under Sum1sgruj, skybringr, homeskillet, etc.
I'm not stunned, they get the bigger point, i am stunned that so many of the women here cannot. (or rather pretend they cannot get it).
I am embarrassed actually that so many other women aren't capable of admitting that sometimes, that sure do reap nasty things because of their own foolish behavior.
Example - a drunk man is a rapist, because a drunk woman cannot consent because she is drunk (even though she said yes).
Thats completely idiotic one sided thinking. If the drink is the real issue, then he didnt know he "raped" her because he was too drunk to make that decision, see how that works?
'Regret' is not 'having been raped'.
I agree, it has spiraled out of control here.
A person doesn't get off on a crime by saying they were intoxicated at the time. And these very same women who perpetuate this nonsense would no doubt break up with their boyfriends or consider divorce if their man cheated on them drunk.
Complete logic fail. If a woman gets drunk, she's responsible for her actions the same as anyone else.
But
It also has to be remembered that it is something perpetuated primarily by female college students, not the older generation who know that it is stupid.
I agree, it has spiraled out of control here.
You know that feeling of relief when that really obnoxious person leaves the gathering? It feels something like this:
Ahh.... that's better.
http://www.mommyish.com/2013/01/02/rape-is-not-a-woman-problem/
This article highlights the feminist view on the subject: Women have no responsibility in the matter. Men are at fault. Its offensive to even say that a woman shouldn't be passed out drunk alone at a frat house. No, only the boys should be taught not to rape.
I have mixed feelings on this. On the one hand, I agree with you that the 'feminist' view has taken things too far. It shouldn't be out of bounds to talk to girls about proper and safe behavior. "Don't get pass-out drunk at a party" shouldn't be offensive. It's common sense. And like TomO said in another post, if girls are taught that they can do nothing wrong then girls will keep putting themselves in bad situations and will continue to be victims.
On the other hand, why are you telling that to the girls instead of the guys? Because girls have to worry about getting raped. How terrible is that? Why should girls have to change their behavior to accommodate creeps who might rape them? Why can't a girl have 'fun' at a party and pass out like guys can with no worry about being raped? Why put a higher standard on girls because some guys can't control themselves? And that's where a slippery slope can start. Instead of telling girls not to get drunk at parties because they might be raped why not guys not to get drunk at parties because they might rape a girl? I can certainly understand that frustration.
Or better yet, teach them all that they carry personal responsibility and accountability for what they each choose to do. You know common sense things.
Sure. But the difference is that 'personal responsibility and accountability' for the girl means they can't do something that is perfectly legal. Something that guys don't have to stop doing. For guys it just means they have to not rape a girl. One of these things is not like the other.