11-year-old Gang-Rape Victim: Should She Be Able To Legally Abort?

11-year-old Gang-Rape Victim: Should She Be Able To Legally Abort?


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Christian Liberty

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While he may be a heathen Wiz is neither defending nor advocating abortion. He is arguing against it, and questioning those who argue for it in such cases.


I know someone else already sort of asked this, but I figure you're more likely to answer me; what are your thoughts on two eleven year olds engaging in "consensual" sex? Should they both be punished in some manner?

Of course, I would wonder where and how they learned of sex well enough to actually have sex and would consider the possibility that there were some form of molestation going on in at least one of their lives.


See above.

What would you advocate in that case, Lighthouse? I remember your theonomy link saying that there should be no reduction of punishment for minors, and I'd be seriously shocked if you didn't want to criminalize fornication so....

What do YOU advocate being done in that case?

BTW: I'm pretty sure that 11 year olds do sometimes have sex these days. Its sick, yes, but I'm pretty sure it happens. So this probably isn't just a hypothetical.
 

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I feel the point of all this for someone who identifies as pro-life is that the circumstances behind the pregnancy are irrelevant. The human developing and growing has the same worth whether conceived during a horrifying rape of a young girl or not.

The standard doesn't change just because the circumstance does. We cannot claim that because of the tragic circumstance that the developing human can be discarded in a misguided attempt to protect the victim. If we say it is OK to do so, we have only created a second victim out of the attack rather than just one and marginalized all humans not yet born.
 

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What would you advocate in that case, Lighthouse? I remember your theonomy link saying that there should be no reduction of punishment for minors, and I'd be seriously shocked if you didn't want to criminalize fornication so....
The only punishment for fornication in the Law is that the two have to get married. I don't think two people that young should get married at that age, but having to end up married to each other when they reach adulthood? I can live with that.

What do YOU advocate being done in that case?
There's also the man having to pay something to the father.

BTW: I'm pretty sure that 11 year olds do sometimes have sex these days. Its sick, yes, but I'm pretty sure it happens. So this probably isn't just a hypothetical.
Yeah.

Oh, and I'm pretty sure Wizard identifies as Christian, although I don't know the details.
Doesn't mean he isn't a heathen.
 

Christian Liberty

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The only punishment for fornication in the Law is that the two have to get married. I don't think two people that young should get married at that age, but having to end up married to each other when they reach adulthood? I can live with that.

Do you support enforcing a law such as that against 11 year olds?

Can you show me where the Old Testament imposes that law? Because I'm honestly not familiar with it.

There's also the man having to pay something to the father.

You mean the 11 year old in this case?

I'm pretty sure you're correct about this, but... why? Why is the man more guilty than the woman? Again, I'm not questioning your Biblical correctness (And that I don't agree with theonomy isn't the point here) but I'm just curious... do you actually have any idea why this particular law?


I've heard of some of it happening in my brother's middle school. I've never heard of it happening in the elementary schools, but it honestly wouldn't surprise me either. I'm mostly joking here, but part of me wants to say execute the public school administrators for brainwashing students into secular humanism.

I'm not generally one to blame anyone but the participant for sin... but frankly, if 2 11 year olds are having sex, I'm almost certain there are more than two people responsible for that sin, in some manner or another. I can't imagine God wanting to force two 11 year olds in such an obviously dysfunctional situation to get married. Particularly if one party is from a Christian home and the other is not, in which case the marriage could very likely violate the "Don't get unequally yoked" passage.

For curiosity, do you believe that fornication itself creates a marriage bond, or do you believe that fornicators should be required to marry later? Because I have seen some Christians who have tried to argue that fornication inherently leads to marriage, with some truly bizarre conclusions.

Doesn't mean he isn't a heathen.

That's true. Most of my interactions with him have been on political topics, but the only "evidence" I have of him being a heathen/pagan are aCW declaring it so. Which is actually evidence AGAINST him being so. Do you know something that I don't?
 

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While he may be a heathen Wiz is neither defending nor advocating abortion. He is arguing against it, and questioning those who argue for it in such cases.

You have been reading godrulz's obfuscations too long.
 

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Do you support enforcing a law such as that against 11 year olds?
As I said, not while they're eleven. Enforce it when they're adults.

Can you show me where the Old Testament imposes that law? Because I'm honestly not familiar with it.
If a man finds a young woman who is a virgin, who is not betrothed, and he seizes her and lies with her, and they are found out, then the man who lay with her shall give to the young woman’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife because he has humbled her; he shall not be permitted to divorce her all his days.
-Deuteronomy 22:28-29

You mean the 11 year old in this case?
He would be 11 at the time.

I'm pretty sure you're correct about this, but... why? Why is the man more guilty than the woman? Again, I'm not questioning your Biblical correctness (And that I don't agree with theonomy isn't the point here) but I'm just curious... do you actually have any idea why this particular law?
I think in this particular law it was because the man was seen as the dominant one who lead the woman into having sex. And OT Israel was a patriarchal society, so the man was held as the most responsible when a man and a woman committed a sin together. And if the dominance were reversed then the man had to pay because he didn't act as the man and he let the woman dominate him.

Now, how this would pay out regarding minors of this young an age is maybe another matter, honestly. Because, as I said, I would suspect at least one of them was being molested and then talked the other one into this.

For instance, I heard a story once of a kid who was molested by some of his older female cousins. The things they told him to do made it seem clear to me that they were molested themselves and reenacting with him. I couldn't fathom them coming up with these ideas at their ages at the time unless they had either been molested or had somehow seen some pornography and were just old enough to be interested in trying it for themselves.

I've heard of some of it happening in my brother's middle school. I've never heard of it happening in the elementary schools, but it honestly wouldn't surprise me either. I'm mostly joking here, but part of me wants to say execute the public school administrators for brainwashing students into secular humanism.
Just another reason I want to eliminate public schools:indoctrination.

I'm not generally one to blame anyone but the participant for sin... but frankly, if 2 11 year olds are having sex, I'm almost certain there are more than two people responsible for that sin, in some manner or another. I can't imagine God wanting to force two 11 year olds in such an obviously dysfunctional situation to get married. Particularly if one party is from a Christian home and the other is not, in which case the marriage could very likely violate the "Don't get unequally yoked" passage.
I'm not particularly certain that passage actually pertains directly to marriage, but I otherwise agree with you.

However, it does make sense to apply it to marriage, especially in cases where the two are of different religions [for lack of a better term]. I just think it goes beyond that.

For curiosity, do you believe that fornication itself creates a marriage bond, or do you believe that fornicators should be required to marry later? Because I have seen some Christians who have tried to argue that fornication inherently leads to marriage, with some truly bizarre conclusions.
As far as Adam and Eve were concerned it seemed that they were considered married from the start, and had sex to consummate it. And I couldn't tell you from memory where and when the first marriage ceremony took place.

I do know that people aren't fully considered married until consummation has taken place in at least some cultures and religions.

So is the argument that fornication is then consummation? I think to a degree that argument could be made, and based on the law in discussion God did not require a ceremony. If there's a separate law regarding ceremonies that I'm missing I would appreciate someone pointing it out.

It does appear there were certificates of divorce, but not of marriage.

That's true. Most of my interactions with him have been on political topics, but the only "evidence" I have of him being a heathen/pagan are aCW declaring it so. Which is actually evidence AGAINST him being so. Do you know something that I don't?
He is a fairly recent convert and was not a professing Christian when he joined TOL, IIRC.

Beyond that there are his positions on a number of things. I think he supports homosexuality, for instance.

But my comment was really just to simply point out that just because someone professes to be a Christian doesn't mean they know Him, or He knows them.

You have been reading godrulz's obfuscations too long.
Then you explain the purpose of the question mark at the end of the sentence you quoted [out of context].

This is what he actually posted, Nick:

Can someone who considers themselves pro-life argue that it should be legal for an 11-year-old rape victim to legally obtain an abortion?

And if you follow the link you'll see why he asked the question.

He may be a heathen but he is adamantly pro-life, quote probably as much as you or I. If he is any less it is because he agrees with Ron Paul that the states should be able to choose their own laws regarding it. I do not recall him having any exceptions.
 

Christian Liberty

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As I said, not while they're eleven. Enforce it when they're adults.

You don't understand my point. You would force two 11 year olds who have sex to then get married when they grow up, because of the sin they committed when they were 11?


If a man finds a young woman who is a virgin, who is not betrothed, and he seizes her and lies with her, and they are found out, then the man who lay with her shall give to the young woman’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife because he has humbled her; he shall not be permitted to divorce her all his days.-Deuteronomy 22:28-29

I always thought this passage was referring to rape. I never liked it, of course, but I always thought that was what it was referring too. I looked into it and found this:

http://www.gotquestions.org/Deuteronomy-22-28-29-marry-rapist.html

Is there anything else in particular regarding rape in the OT?


He would be 11 at the time.

Maybe its cultural but I guess I was questioning whether an 11 year old qualified as a "Man".

I think in this particular law it was because the man was seen as the dominant one who lead the woman into having sex. And OT Israel was a patriarchal society, so the man was held as the most responsible when a man and a woman committed a sin together. And if the dominance were reversed then the man had to pay because he didn't act as the man and he let the woman dominate him.

Yeah, I suspected something like that. Fair enough.

Now, how this would pay out regarding minors of this young an age is maybe another matter, honestly. Because, as I said, I would suspect at least one of them was being molested and then talked the other one into this.

For instance, I heard a story once of a kid who was molested by some of his older female cousins. The things they told him to do made it seem clear to me that they were molested themselves and reenacting with him. I couldn't fathom them coming up with these ideas at their ages at the time unless they had either been molested or had somehow seen some pornography and were just old enough to be interested in trying it for themselves.

Yeah, I can't imagine locking a boy into a permanent relationship with a girl in a situation like that, and I can't imagne God supporting it either, but then, he doesn't comment beyond what we've already discussed in the OT.

Just another reason I want to eliminate public schools:indoctrination.

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I'm not particularly certain that passage actually pertains directly to marriage, but I otherwise agree with you.

However, it does make sense to apply it to marriage, especially in cases where the two are of different religions [for lack of a better term]. I just think it goes beyond that.

What's your take on the passage? I'm not disagreeing, I'm just pointing it out.

As far as Adam and Eve were concerned it seemed that they were considered married from the start, and had sex to consummate it. And I couldn't tell you from memory where and when the first marriage ceremony took place.

I do know that people aren't fully considered married until consummation has taken place in at least some cultures and religions.

So is the argument that fornication is then consummation? I think to a degree that argument could be made, and based on the law in discussion God did not require a ceremony. If there's a separate law regarding ceremonies that I'm missing I would appreciate someone pointing it out.

OK, I had a hardcore Calvinist (Like to the degree where he would claim non-Calvinists are not saved) link me this article to prove the view that if two virgins have sex, they are automatically married:

http://www.outsidethecamp.org/marriage.htm

Ignoring everything else on the website, would you agree that the conclusions of this article are wrong? Why or why not?

He is a fairly recent convert and was not a professing Christian when he joined TOL, IIRC.

Beyond that there are his positions on a number of things. I think he supports homosexuality, for instance.

Are you defining "Supporting homosexuality" in the normal sense (actually approving of or being OK with homosexual activity) or are you defining "Supporting homosexuality" as being against its criminalization?

But my comment was really just to simply point out that just because someone professes to be a Christian doesn't mean they know Him, or He knows them.

Obviously, yes.

He may be a heathen but he is adamantly pro-life, quote probably as much as you or I. If he is any less it is because he agrees with Ron Paul that the states should be able to choose their own laws regarding it. I do not recall him having any exceptions.

Just out of curiosity, do you agree with Bob Enyart that Christians who support Ron Paul are sinning and need to repent? Why or why not?
 

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You don't understand my point. You would force two 11 year olds who have sex to then get married when they grow up, because of the sin they committed when they were 11?
I don't know. As I said, I would suspect there was sexual abuse from an adult somehow involved and in such a case I would prosecute the abuser and the kids would never be punished in any fashion.

But in the hypothetical event there was no abuse I would think deference to their mental state and ability to consent with complete understanding with what they've done. But then I would have to see where in the Bible I could justify that.

It's not something I've ever really considered. I've always thought about consenting adults in this regard.

I always thought this passage was referring to rape. I never liked it, of course, but I always thought that was what it was referring too. I looked into it and found this:

http://www.gotquestions.org/Deuteronomy-22-28-29-marry-rapist.html

Is there anything else in particular regarding rape in the OT?
Right above it:

But if a man finds a betrothed young woman in the countryside, and the man forces her and lies with her, then only the man who lay with her shall die. But you shall do nothing to the young woman; there is in the young woman no sin deserving of death, for just as when a man rises against his neighbor and kills him, even so is this matter. For he found her in the countryside, and the betrothed young woman cried out, but there was no one to save her.
-Deuteronomy 22:25-27

Maybe its cultural but I guess I was questioning whether an 11 year old qualified as a "Man".
He would when he was a man. According to Jewish culture currently a 13 year old is a man. But if you look at the OT 20 was the age of adulthood.

But I certainly don't believe an 11 year old is a man. I don't think a 13 year old is, either. In fact, I don't think 18 should be it.

Yeah, I can't imagine locking a boy into a permanent relationship with a girl in a situation like that, and I can't imagne God supporting it either, but then, he doesn't comment beyond what we've already discussed in the OT.
True.

What's your take on the passage? I'm not disagreeing, I'm just pointing it out.
Just that I think it goes encompasses more than that relationship. But it is also not a command.

OK, I had a hardcore Calvinist (Like to the degree where he would claim non-Calvinists are not saved) link me this article to prove the view that if two virgins have sex, they are automatically married:

http://www.outsidethecamp.org/marriage.htm

Ignoring everything else on the website, would you agree that the conclusions of this article are wrong? Why or why not?
I currently disagree with that idea right now, but I also think they should have to get married, per the passage discussed previously. However, there is no mention of a ceremony therein.

But I am willing to discuss it with those I trust. And I'll see if the article persuades me...

OK, that's a lot of stuff to read.

I do know that there is no mention of weddings in the law. The first mention of a wedding is in Song of Solomon, and it is the only OT mention of a wedding. There are only a few others in the Bible, the parable of the wedding feast, the parable of the virgins, two more short parables/lessons and the wedding wherein Jesus turned water into wine.

There are five mentions of brides and three of bridechambers. Several of being given in marriage, and betrothals. Not to mention bridegrooms.

But none of these speak of ceremonies or certificates. All the direct references to weddings seem to be speaking of wedding feasts. So it's really hard to say without really going over it, to be honest.

Are you defining "Supporting homosexuality" in the normal sense (actually approving of or being OK with homosexual activity) or are you defining "Supporting homosexuality" as being against its criminalization?
The former.

Just out of curiosity, do you agree with Bob Enyart that Christians who support Ron Paul are sinning and need to repent? Why or why not?
Where did Bob say that?

I will let you know that I don't think Bob agrees with me that Christians cannot sin as Christians, that sin is in the flesh and we are not in the flesh. But we do still sin in the flesh, and when we do we should always turn from it.

And I do believe that RP in supporting the states' right to choose in sinning in doing that, thus those who support him in that also are.
 

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I feel the point of all this for someone who identifies as pro-life is that the circumstances behind the pregnancy are irrelevant. The human developing and growing has the same worth whether conceived during a horrifying rape of a young girl or not.
It's still her child, no matter where the sperm came from.

The standard doesn't change just because the circumstance does. We cannot claim that because of the tragic circumstance that the developing human can be discarded in a misguided attempt to protect the victim.
Much more than that, to council for abortion is to make the victim a murderer. Being a rape victim is bad enough.
If we say it is OK to do so, we have only created a second victim out of the attack rather than just one and marginalized all humans not yet born.
The worst part is she won't realize it until she has one.
Let's say she aborts after the rape, grows up, goes to college, marries the man of her dreams and has a baby.
The first time she holds her newborn what she has done will hit her like a ton of bricks.
She can have as many children as she wants and be the best mother in the world to them but there will always be a hole in her heart.
She'll never be able to forget that there was one other, that she didn't hold and take care of.

See, the baby is there, the only choice she has is how to deal with it. An abortion doesn't undo the baby or the rape, it makes her kill her first child. Then she has to live her life as a rape victim AND a child killer.
 

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As you should know, there are MANY complications that physicians bring to women's attention during pregnancy. However, a high risk pregnancy does not mean one needs to JUMP to the conclusion that allowing their unborn baby to live will mean certain death for the mother. This really is a self-serving cop-out

Mothers (and fathers) are suppose to be caregivers and IF that means risking ourselves for our children, it is just what an unselfish parent does ... put their child's needs above their own.

Cop out? no, ive made it perfectly clear to all who can read, that it would depend on what doctors say assuming they have done all they can first.

A cop out is your willingness in some cases to take a mother from her other children and force a severely beaten harmed body to do the impossible.

If you dont like my stance on it, tough.
 

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Cop out? no, ive made it perfectly clear to all who can read, that it would depend on what doctors say assuming they have done all they can first.

Interestingly enough, all that can read and have still informed YOU of your inconsistent position includes WoO, LH, Knight, RP, Door, etc.

A cop out is your willingness in some cases to take a mother from her other children and force a severely beaten harmed body to do the impossible.

Now now ... rather that get defensive, try to focus on the TOPIC at hand.

Either abortion is the intentional killing of an unborn baby or it is not. Which is it?

Either ALL babies are innocent and deserving of life or they are not. Which is it?

If you dont like my stance on it, tough.

Like? Your hypocritical stance which allows you to advocate that certain unborn babies be intentionally killed based on whatever criteria you choose to use is of absolutely no consequence to me. All it does is place you with all other pro-aborts who have been using their own criteria since RvsW to make sure that the *choice* of intentionally killing unwanted babies stays legal.

In closing, I would just like to point out to you, angel, that you are not alone with how you voted on the poll of this thread. Those who voted as you did have consistently advocated for AOD to stay legal.
 

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And i have told you and everyone repeatedly, i support ending a pregnancy only in the case of the life of the mother, which never needed abortion laws to begin with, it was already reality before roe v wade. Abortion laws were not needed to save a mothers life.

So if you want to call me a hypocrite for my consistent position, knock yourself out.
 

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It's still her child, no matter where the sperm came from.


Much more than that, to council for abortion is to make the victim a murderer. Being a rape victim is bad enough.

The worst part is she won't realize it until she has one.
Let's say she aborts after the rape, grows up, goes to college, marries the man of her dreams and has a baby.
The first time she holds her newborn what she has done will hit her like a ton of bricks.
She can have as many children as she wants and be the best mother in the world to them but there will always be a hole in her heart.
She'll never be able to forget that there was one other, that she didn't hold and take care of.

See, the baby is there, the only choice she has is how to deal with it. An abortion doesn't undo the baby or the rape, it makes her kill her first child. Then she has to live her life as a rape victim AND a child killer.

Perhaps the greatest and most noble thing one could do for this young mother is teach her to love the child.
 
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And i have told you and everyone repeatedly, i support ending a pregnancy only in the case of the life of the mother, which never needed abortion laws to begin with, it was already reality before roe v wade. Abortion laws were not needed to save a mothers life.

So if you want to call me a hypocrite for my consistent position, knock yourself out.

Nope ... you are NOT being consistent. You cannot call yourself prolife in one breath and then go on to advocate that you support a woman's right to choose abortion in the case of rape.

It's not consistent and even worse, it is the type of wishy-washy- some-abortions-are-perfectly-okay mentality that pro-abortion advocates cling to when they are looking for an excuse to vilify the prolife/anti-abortion movement as a whole.

If you are unable to view ALL unborn babies as deserving of life, then how can you possibly demand that other women be required to allow their innocent, unborn babies to live?
 

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Nope ... you are NOT being consistent. You cannot call yourself prolife in one breath and then go on to advocate that you support a woman's right to choose abortion in the case of rape.

Gotta chime in here.

Yes, you can. I don't care for the Enyarts of the world telling me what I "really" believe, Rusha, and if I take a nuanced and less-than-absolutist position on this particular scenario, what I truly believe and stand for is not up for re-definition by anyone else.

It's not consistent and even worse, it is the type of wishy-washy- some-abortions-are-perfectly-okay...

I don't think aborting, no matter what the situation, is ever "perfectly okay." What it can be, in extremely limited circumstances, is the best out of regrettable and tragic alternatives. When you're dealing with the eleven-year-old victim of a gang rape--which is so nightmarish it's hard for me to actually say--it's hard to imagine a truly happy ending for anyone involved, no matter what decision you make.
 
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