A nonbeliever doing what God told him to?
You continually defend your dad who was the abuser and blame your mother for trying to protect you, saying that she sinned, that she is the one who disobeyed God. So yes you are defending an abuser.
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You constantly try to justify the woman and according to the word it cant be done. My Dad went to church for about 3 months. And learned a little. But when they said he had to pay tithes he quit.