Ah well Mr Deets...
I hope all goes well!
Although I had waited at first for someone to talk to you - I mean really talk to you here.
Since you are a - do you think I am going to say "man"?
Nope.
I was going to say "husband".
You know - where you are reminded you are to love your wife, be patient and supportive and understanding the way - you know - the way you would like the Lord Jesus to be with you.
Now life may not be hard for you, and you may not need The Lord to understand your weaknesses and fears and limits.
But if life is hard for you, you have a perfect chance to make The Lord notice you - by trying to cross that bridge between you being a man and the husband and her being the wife and a woman.
God bless you and yours, Mr Deets.
ps to those who think I am always a man hater. I think women should be loving, supportive and helpful to their husbands and the position they can feel they are in as well..
Life can feel hard, be hard. right?